Think narc ex was calling me at half 6 in the morning with private numbers as that's the time he'd usually start emailing me?

[Anonymous]

So I emailed him and within 2 minutes denied it was him. I never had private calls before in the 19 years I've had this number and he's the only one who blocks his number from me.. So it doesn't take a genius to work out it was him baiting me to contact him. Now I'm prepared for what happens next.. HAS anyone else got stories of their narc exes, I don't mean assholes, I mean proper narcs and what did u do to protect yourself from them?

[Oliverlogan263]

Dang, that's a tough situation, girl. I can totally understand why you're still feeling hurt even after reaching out for his birthday. Not getting that proper closure can really mess with your emotions, y'know?

I think it's understandable if you wanna let out how you're still feeling about the way he ended things. Holding all that in can be draining, and it might help you start to heal if you get it off your chest, even if he doesn't really care.

Just be careful though, 'cause you don't wanna end up regretting opening up that wound again, ya feel me? If you do decide to let him know how you're still hurting, maybe try to do it in a way that's more about you and your feelings, rather than blaming him. That might make it easier to get the closure you need without dragging up more drama.

At the end of the day, you gotta do what's best for you. If keeping no contact is gonna be healthier in the long run, then stick to that. But if you think letting him know how you feel will help you move on, then go for it. Just protect yourself first, girl.

[In_Trance]

You shouldn't be involved with a guy in the drug trade