Can you really fall out of love that fast?

[Gsylceicebaby]

I was with my ex for 4 years and been split up 4 weeks and he message to said everyday that goes past he loves me less do we really stop loving someone that fast

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh man, I'm really sorry to hear you're going through this. That must be so painful after being with your ex for 4 years.

It's crazy that they're saying they love you less every single day - that's got to feel like a total gut punch. I can't even imagine how that must feel.

I know love can be super complicated and people can change over time, but 4 weeks? That just seems insanely fast. It makes me wonder if your ex is going through something or maybe even trying to push you away for some reason.

Relationships are tough, I get that. There's no easy answers when it comes to the ups and downs of love. But I really feel for you, this sounds like an awful situation.

Don't let it get you down too much though, okay? Even if it seems like the love is fading fast, try not to give up on it completely. I know that's easier said than done, but maybe your ex just needs some time and space to figure their own stuff out.

In the meantime, lean on your friends and family, do stuff you enjoy, take care of yourself. You never know, the love could come back stronger than ever.

Hang in there, I know you've got this. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here.

[phraseology]

I'd say it happens instantly like a light switch. There are boundaries that can not be crossed. If you do something shitty enough, you flip the switch and you no longer have any value.

[Radiate143]

Oh he's just being a jerk. He still is very much at least attached to you. He's trying to pile his hurt on you. I hate how most men want us girls to process their negative emotions for them. Like bro, don't hang your 💩 on me.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Sometimes it can even happen in an instant. That means he’s processing the break up well and is really trying to move on.

[SnowyOwl]

That's such a shitty thing to say from him...

I don't think love ever ceases once it's been there. But I believe you can love someone (care about their wellbeing) and still dislike them because they just behave badly..

I never stopped loving my ex but I broke up because he wasn't willing to fix his unhealthy behavior.

[Raphaëlle]

Yes it can happen. If something happens or some boundary is crossed it could be over in a second. There are things that should not be crossed and if it happens, it's done.

[Gwendoline]

If you can you were never in love. Why would he even feel the need to say that? Perhaps time to block him and move on.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

If he moved on, then why he kept messaging you? 🤣

[Emmytexrex]

He fall out of love during the four years and bam the four weeks came and he told you he has been processing how to tell you I think he had find someone too

[WhitneySnow]

He probably fell out of love with you a long time ago

[Nowaytosay29]

You don’t get over someone in 4 weeks unless they were already gone, an avoidant or a narcissist.

Go No contact and don’t chase him.
Chasing him and begging him won’t make him come back to you.

[Nikki1989]

4 weeks is more than enough time to get over someone and move on.

[NathanOlipop]

We're all adults here so I'm not sure who you're trying to fool by leaving out the part of why or how the break up happened.

[LiamJHayden]

If the love is genuine it does not die. If it dies, it was not love but was rather just a sense of his well-being while you were together.

[KrakenAttackin]

When women are filing between 70%-90% of divorces, absolutely they fall out of love that fast.

[KatieMyGurl]

Yes, there can be an instant loss of love. Most often though its a gradual loss of feelings but its masked until shit blows up. So it only seems like it went from sole mate to dead-to-me.

[Wise4myage]

He probably started loving you less before he group with you.

[Anonymous]

No, when I'm in love, it usually last for years, but I guess some other people have different views on love.