Do you fall in and out of love easily?

[SunnyRS]

I mean is that really love then? If you can so easily fall out of love of someone, move on and find someone new very quickly.
No judgement, cause if you can you are way headstrong than me, but I don't think it is possible for me to move on quickly and find someone new.

[7Phoenix7]

I definitely do not fall in love easily. But when I do... it takes a lot for me to fall out

[SunnyRS]

I am with you on that.

[mandyfire98]

Not at all. It takes a lit for me to actually fall in love with someone.

[SunnyRS]

Same

[mandyfire98]

It's also because I have always had a pretty high level of emotional maturity so I've always been good about being able to separate things like lust from love or something being a crush vs true love. I could always separate those and compartmentalize it.

[SunnyRS]

Well here we might differ.
I am not good at compartmentalizing, I know the difference between love and lust but other than that, I can't tell the difference that is why I stay away.

[mandyfire98]

A lot of people can't separate it. I have been lucky enough from early on to be able to.

[SunnyRS]

That's great

[AI Opinion]

Navigating the waves of love, ah, isn't it just like riding a roller coaster with your eyes closed? Falling in and out of love seems like a dance many of us are still learning the steps to. My take? True love, the deep, gritty, stick-with-you-through-thick-and-thin kind, doesn't pack its bags at the first sign of trouble. But hey, every heart beats to its own rhythm. If someone moves on quickly, it might just be their way of coping, or maybe what they felt was more infatuation than love. No shade, though! We're all just trying to figure out this thing called love, one beat at a time. And remember, being headstrong or heart-strong—each has its own charm in the grand scheme of love. 😉

[Anonymous]

Yes it’s why I’ve never been in a real relationship. I don’t even think we’re supposed to be monogamous.

most of us are trained to be monogamous, but by nature we’re NOT supposed to be.

All those happy couples you see are faking it. They’re disingenuous and fakers. Women/Females are supposed to share and mate with the strongest most attractive male of great mating value.

That’s how we should live. But unfortunately this is not the case. People have been fed the idea of “the one” for way too long. The Princess 👸 Ideology. Its unrealistic and a fantasy.

only females believe that stupidity and weak males. It’s why married men are all “pushovers”. Weak and testosterone deficient.

Being in a relationship is the most fake shit on earth. Complete make believe, and a lie. Anyone in a relationship is just pretending to be happy. This is both wives and husbands.

[SunnyRS]

That is some survival of the fittest kind of thinking, which is solid

[Opinion Owner]

Marriage was only for the royals, to ensure their offspring is theirs. They are of royal blood and royal background.
Us “common folk” are not Kings or Queens. We are common folk. We’re not supposed to marry unless we are rich and of royal background.

[Fatoumamoud]

I haven't been in relationship before, I believe it will be more easier to move on if they person you were dating done you dirty. Like cheating, big lies... which make it easier for you to get over their ass. But how quick are we talking about?

[SunnyRS]

It was a hypothetical question, but if you are asking then let's suppose a week or two.
As for your reason, I half agree with it, as it might be easier to get them out of your life, but the impact would still remain and might affect you from falling in love again.
So, you may move on quickly but you won't fall in love back again quickly.

[Fatoumamoud]

+ move on quickly like after a week, a month, 5 months means they never loved you. Or they are getting into relationship to replace emptiness which sucks because that's not a good idea and it's hurt the other person in long run. But this also works, worked for some people.
++
+ relationship came and goes. If you think that moving on quickly may affect you future love relationships then think about each break ups as experiences. Each break ups, make you learn what works for you, what you can't tolerate or not, make you mature, and it's part of life. People changes, you may change and leave the person too.

[just_a_potato]

I fall in love quickly and it's hard to fall back out, I have to put in immense effort to crush my own feelings if that's the goal. Unless they turn out to be a terrible person, then it's pretty easy to get over them no matter how quickly I fell in love lmao.

[Adogdog]

That's sweet!

[Minky17]

Yes I can fall in and out lof love easily if it's fresh. If I've been with a person for 8 years - it's a bit more difficult. But I will fall out of love and become indifferent towards them if we don't have common ground anymore.

[SunnyRS]

That's great.
You have a strong mind

[Minky17]

Thank you!

[SunnyRS]

You are most welcome

[NathanDavis]

not at all, no..

"easy" is not the right word

[SunnyRS]

Then what is the right word?

[NathanDavis]

worthy...

[electromagnetic]

I don’t fall in love easily. But if I’m committed, I’m committed. It does take a while for me to move on though.

[sawno]

With the right girl I fall in love seamlessly and then don't fall out of love.
With the wrong girl its basically impossible for her.

[DishLady]

Nope.

[SunnyRS]

Ok 👌

[Dongie]

That's the actions of the youth.

[LiamJHayden]

Neither.