I just embarrassed the shit out of myself. how do I recover from this?

[Anonymous]

I reached out to my ex for the first time after the break up 4 months ago. He came on my mind and I missed him. I also just wanted closure smh. When I called him he picked and said who is this? I said it’s me and he immediately said what do you want? SMH. I told him I missed him and he said he’s on the phone with something important. He will call back. I haven’t heard anything and it’s been hours. I sent a text too…. No response. I’m totally embarrassed and just seriously hurt by how much he hates me. SMH I don’t know how to feel at all smh

[Anonymous]

You can’t help it now, it’s done, take the L and put it in the past. He may call back but if he does I would just ignore it. You don’t need closure, that’s just an excuse to possibly mend things because you miss him. Missing people comes with the break up, that doesn’t mean you don’t need to be done with that person. Find something more productive to do next time you miss him. It won’t always feel like this.

[Simslover92]

It's okay. I've been there. It's going to sting but just dust yourself off and move on. I would suggest not doing that again and just see it as a learning lesson.

[Emmytexrex]

Don't call him don't text him just leave him alone and move on I know it's very hard and tempting but if he sees you have moved on he might start getting attracted to you again but by then you have already moved on

[Emmytexrex]

Thanks for the mho

[ChicoFromThe305]

I think messaging him again was an intrusive thoughts you probably shouldn't have acted on, I get the embarrassment but it's not anything you can't move on from.

[Alex-Snow]

You did nothing wrong. Do not overthink it. We all are human and make mistakes!

[ProbablyClueless]

Just don't talk to him anymore?