Guys, Why are we still snap friends?

[Anonymous]

I was seeing this guy for a year, and he ghosted. He then reached back out 4 months after that asking for a hookup, and I told him no. He reached out again in May this past year (a few months after our last conversation) and told me that he went through rehab for coke addiction, and he was trying to work things out with his ex. He asked if we could talk again soon after that conversation and I said I would like that. But I still love him, and it hurt to think that I was just another person in his roster. So I haven't reached out, and it's been 6 months. I know that he's not with his ex anymore, and he moved to another state. He hasn't reached out, and we're still friends on snapchat. I was wondering if anyone could give some input as to why he hasn't deleted me yet?

[StevenMcGarrett]

He is not mad at you so not need to delete you from Snapchat. He is keeping you because he is hoping you will come back as friends with benefits.

[Asker]

That's not going to happen.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Well, he has hope.

[SixFootSexy]

You are in the Sleeper category for him. Unlikely you will ever get out, especially if he dumped you.

[Abbycado]

Come on, you are not in your 30s...

You love a guy that ghosted you?

[Asker]

I do. Trust me, it would be easier if I could just shut off any feeling I have for him. It's a work in progress.

[Abbycado]

To me, it sounds like he just wants in your pants.

[Nikki1989]

Why is someone in their 30s talking about snap friends?

Holy Crap!

[Asker]

It's a social media platform, just like Instagram, Facebook, etc. I was asking a genuine question, if you have nothing to offer to the conversation why say anything at all?

[melnc]

Your question is completely unfair.

[Asker]

How so?