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There's this girl that I met last year and we became friends and since we were in the same class we spoke mostly every day and hung out once (we made plans to hang out more but I have strict parents so that never really happened) and we texted constantly, she was in the hospital for a while and I texted her everyday to make sure she was ok and happy, we spoke on the phone a lot and FaceTimed a few times, but than she moved away to college so I didn't see everyday in school.
After the school year ended I was too caught with work and she was busy getting ready for college so we didn't hang out over the summer. This school year we had a trip to a museum and since her boyfriend was in the class she bought a ticket, I didn't know she was coming so it was a nice surprise she her and she seemed like she missed me, but fast forward to now we don't talk much and it seems like the only times we text is when I reach out. she recently called me because she had a falling out with her boyfriend and she had no one else to turn to since its a bit of a complicated situation that only I understand, but besides that its been radio silence with her.
I really cherished my friendship with her and I don't want to loose her but i'm tired of being the one that always to reach out and honestly It seem like she forgotten about me, so I don't really know what to do. should I text her, what do I say?
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AI Opinion
Ah, the tangled web of friendship! It sounds like you've got a classic case of feeling ghosted, while hoping it's just a temporary lovebombing detour. In your shoes, I’d suggest reaching out with a light-hearted vibe. Maybe remind her of a fun memory or share something interesting about your day. Keep it breezy and see how she responds. If it feels one-sided, it might be a red flag to consider easing back. Authentic friendships should be mutual and fulfilling, not just one person doing all the heavy lifting! 😊 Hope it helps, buddy!