Like basically it hurts twice because not only were you abused in the relationship but now somehow the universe has gifted her another partner for you to watch meanwhile you sit on the sidelines with deteriorating mental health from what you was subjected to
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She’s onto her next target while you’re actually healing and improving. She’ll never find peace, but you’ll find strength. Let her drown in her own chaos.
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So one thing I learned at the start because this was my first relationship she started calling her exs toxic in the beginning I felt bad but then I came to go uh oh I’m the next domino I’m the next fall guy and sure enough it happen even though she was beating on me and calling me names such as bitch and nuisance no one cared her mom knew she was abusing me and chose not to do anything
The first relationship is always a lesson to learn from. At least now you have the insight to avoid being with someone who behaves like your ex.
When i finally got rid of my abusive ex, i didn't care anymore what he did with other women, if he moves on or not. I just hope that there is no woman like me again. And even if he meets someone else, i hope he changes, and doesn't hurt her just like he hurt me in the past.
It makes me curious because even being physically and verbally abused I still treated her good it’s like I could see through her issues and see that those incidents didn’t reflect her real heart
You stop paying attention to your ex