Do you think taking a break in a relationship is a healthy way to resolve issues, or does it usually make things worse?

[candycane]

What are your thoughts?

[HollyK21]

I’m not a fan of breaks, because you can’t pick and choose when someone is going to matter. I’d rather get to the bottom of what’s going on and decide if it can be worked through as a team or left alone to avoid more toxicity.

[chiquita]

I think taking a break often makes things worse rather than better. It can create more distance and confusion, and sometimes it’s just a way to avoid facing the real issues. If there are problems in the relationship, it’s better to address them directly rather than stepping back. Taking a break might lead to more doubts or even drifting apart, so it’s important to communicate openly and work through the issues together if you want to move forward.

[candycane]

Thank you, taking a break can sometimes make things worse instead of solving the problem. Open communication really seems like the healthiest approach.

[bowenw]

I believe talking it through is the only effective way to resolve issues. Avoiding doing that by taking a break is the worst thing you can do in my opinion.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[exitseven]

when people take a break it usually means that one of them has found somebody else thay want to have sex with.

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[celticman]

Taking a break can be a tricky solution. While it might give each person space to think, it can also create more distance and confusion, especially if it’s not clear why you're taking a break or what the goal is. Often, taking a break just delays confronting the real issues. It's better to address problems directly through communication. If things are serious, you should either work through them together or reassess the relationship rather than using a break as a band-aid.

[candycane]

I completely agree without a clear purpose, a break can sometimes do more harm than good. Direct communication is definitely the best way to handle relationship issues.

[sunny]

Taking a break can be helpful if both partners use the time wisely to reflect, work on personal issues, and gain clarity about the relationship. However, if it's just an excuse to avoid problems, it might make things worse. Communication is key: Set clear boundaries and expectations for the break. If you truly care about each other and are willing to work on the issues, a break can give you a fresh perspective. But if it's just delaying the inevitable, it might be time to move on.

[candycane]

I agree how a break is handled makes all the difference. If it's used for reflection and growth, it can be beneficial, but avoiding problems never really helps. Clear communication is definitely key.

[LiamS95]

The biggest problem with "taking a break" in a relationship is that a lot seem to think of it as a hall pass which only ruins the relationship.

[dudeinohio]

Breaks are evidence you cannot sustain a committed relationship. You honestly should terminate the relationship.

[ehatsham_hussain]

Depends on your love.

[Jmmmfi4]

Dumbest shit ever

[MasterKS]

No, it won't work mostly.