Is it okay to take a relationship break? How do you approach this?

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Sometimes I feel like I need a break from my relationship. Especially during times when I am busy and stressed, relationships feel like an extra responsibility to me.

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

You just tell him but a lot of times “breaks” do become the end of a relationship officially. It’s not to say that if it’s meant to be you can’t start over later but starting over isn’t picking up where you left off. That’s another story…

You just need to be direct and honest not only for yourself but for him as well, you wouldn’t want someone acting like things are great just to find out later they weren’t happy with you.

All relationships have problems either it’s meant to be and it’s worked through to become stronger. But both people are also pushing one another to be the best versions of themselves or frankly it’s not meant to be.

What you need to be is be kind but direct about how you feel. That you feel like you need a break because the relationship is another responsibility to you. It’s not fair to not be able to show someone the kind of love they deserve because of whatever reason. So it’s not just for yourself you both probably are good people who deserve to be happy.

Maybe you will talk things through take a break and be better then ever. Maybe you both find someone whose a better fit for you both. But at the end of the day it’s better to have the hard conversations first then wait until things are miserable later because I promise that’s harder to deal with.

lightbulb27 · Accepted Answer

i felt like that when single and when it was generally toxic in relationships. I took several brakes from dating one person, because of the added stress. I dreaded goign to church with her. others can be tiring, even if like them... I had to get away to decompress. it's a matter of stress and communications.

with my wife, I like to be with her, she is my break... unless she's going nuts on sugar or non stop talking real estate, she's generally easy going. Anymore, my stress tolerance is less than when I was younger... work really chewed me up as did some stressful times in life, so it really helps she takes my stress away. I get sufficient time for myself that I don't need more time.

So maybe relationship isn't working right for you, you need more alone time... e. g. introversion and your mate is extrovert and too much? you'll have to figure out if that is the right person for you and can work it out.

Even my pets would take time to themselves and most dogs would. We all need some time on our own.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I think it's deeply important to ask yourself why you need a break from someone you claim to love or really like. What is going to massively change if you walk away from them and do your own thing? Are you going to change, is there maybe a false expectation that they will? And unfortunately, you have to ask yourself do you think the person you are seeing is even willing to wait for you to do whatever it is you need to do.

I think if you are feeling stressed and going through mental health issues, it's better to talk to your partner about that, and then see if you can get into counseling either in person, or online. Your partner should be your other half, and capable of understanding when you communicate with them what it is you need and how you plan to work through it with their help. Running this time, the next time, it's not going to help you long term.

Ms_Facesitter · Accepted Answer

I refuse to believe that it's okay to take a break. If you need a break from your partner, that's not the right partner. "Sorry, I gotta be single for a sec, right now..." No... You both work it out and grow, instead of running from the problem. And if the problem can not be solved, find someone better.

Love Doctor Brad · Accepted Answer

As a relationship expert on Girls Ask Guys, let me tell you, it's totally normal to need a breather sometimes! Life can get crazy, and relationships shouldn't feel like an extra load to carry. Communication is your best friend here, as keeping things open and honest about your feelings can make all the difference. As long as it's approached with respect and understanding, a break can be a healthy move for you both. Remember, love should feel like a warm hug, not a straitjacket! 💖

ohsheeT · Answer

There's really no such thing I mean you need to communicate about it figure out ways to take that load off of you and at the same time you stick in the relationship and be happy because if you're not happy if it's taking a toll on you then it's never going to work

Finchie40 · Answer

Yes it’s ok it’s your life and your choice , but understand your relationship is more than likely over if you choose to do so , . So if you need a break from your partner , then your partner isn’t the partner for you period , you are best to just end it with them and move on. You can’t expect someone to choose you if you can’t choose them , For a relationship to last it needs to go both ways

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Does a “break” mean you are both free to date and even have sex with other partners?

3hundred · Answer

It’s normal to need space, but taking a “break” can be tough. Be honest with your partner and explain that this is stress-related, not about them. Set clear boundaries so it doesn’t feel like a separation. But also ask yourself if you really need space or if the relationship itself feels like a burden.

teguy · Answer

It's okay to need space, but communication is key. Be honest with your partner about why you need a break, and make sure you both understand the purpose of it. It's not about ending things, just about recharging so you can come back stronger together.

eclipse · Answer

Taking a break can be okay if it’s done with honesty and clear boundaries. If your relationship is feeling overwhelming, communicate that you need space rather than just walking away. But ask yourself if you’re just taking a break or if you’re questioning the relationship itself. It makes all the difference

melnc · Answer

It seems you're using the relationship as an excuse for your own inability to cope with life. You're definitely not helping yourself. Stop being selfish and let them go instead of dragging both of you down for a stupid excuse

Abbycado · Answer

If you have to take a break from someone because you are busy or stressed, you shouldn’t be in a relationship. That is called “life”.

EmmaMary · Answer

Well you certainly live up to your username!

Alwayreckles93 · Answer

Yes I say go for at at the end of the day. Get some time to relax listen to classical music and get a mini home spa. It has worked out for me.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

In a marriage there are no breaks from your relationship, because you're simply married, you have responsibilities that needs to be done but if you were a boyfriend and a girlfriend than yes you can take a break...

Anonymous · Answer

Take a break from relationships, not from an individual. Once you start that break, your relationship will absolutely suck after that. Even if you manage to work things out at some point.

Nikki1989 · Answer

Wanting a break is the first sign your relationship is failing.

paledreams · Answer

Lol if people need to take a break hahaha why have a relationship would be my knee jerk reaction 😂😂

bowenw · Answer

It depends on what you mean by a break. I think it's perfectly acceptable to spend a night out or a weekend getaway with the girls.

McLlovin · Answer

No its not. Just break up. It saves time and headache then dragging a dead relationship on.

SolitarySolace · Answer

There is no such thing as a relationship break. You’ve broken up and one of you will find someone else and start something new with that person.

admles · Answer

For me, there is no such thing as "taking a break". We are either together, or we are not. You'd have to get his opinion on this and go from there.

exitseven · Answer

I always thought that a relation break is just an excuse to cheat with somebody else

CarolinaGirl5 · Answer

Yeah as long as you don't mind him seeing other people while ur on your break

Sofie01 · Answer

Taking in my experience is they go someone else that fails then they wanna come back. I’m not down with that.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

A "break" is a breakup, don't kid yourself.

Rockey_the_bicker · Answer

Yes , break is a thing which maintain relationships

itsannalee · Answer

I’m easy to move on… So for me no.

Anonymous · Answer

Just say you need a break.

Pterodon · Answer

A break is a breakup

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

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