I have a friend ( female ) that I have known for a very long time , she has always been reasonably logical , but she is infatuated with this guy from Italy , who quite obviously has many other relationships and is not coming back , for if he were its just because he knows she is infatuated , and free sex , rather than grab someone new.
Its ridiculous , this guy has not been here for years. None of my business sure , but its horrendous seeing someone live a fantasy that is just never going to happen. Often its more honest to simply end it.


To be honest is important..
Sometimes you need to be honest with yourself , its not doing this person any good.