Is it true that if a man didn’t really love you, after a breakup he will start talking to other women, or do some do this to distract themselves?

[strawberrybaby3]

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I saw a man commenting on a tiktok stating that if they didn’t really love you they still start talking to women right away but I feel like they’d also do that because they can’t be alone with their thoughts and don’t want to feel pain. To me this doesn’t mean they didn’t love somebody.

[Finchie40]

Not necessarily true , because you can always love someone whether you are with them or not , if he broke up with her , it just means he no longer wants to be with her and probably wants to date other girls’ instead , or he just doesn’t want to be tied down in a relationship anymore , so he can still love her but not be with her. Some guys’ have a hard time moving on to another girl after a break up and some guys’ don’t have a problem moving on after a break up , so it just comes down to his choice and decision

[glennos89]

Depends on who's choice it was to breakup. If he got dumped he has no other alternative no matter how much he still be loving you

[gemb00]

I don’t think men are truly capable of experiencing true love. That’s why they do the 💩 they do

[strawberrybaby3]

I kinda have to agree with you on this. I think we love on a way deeper level.

[gemb00]

Women definitely experience love. Men, experience LIKE

[Ms_Facesitter]

It's not true. Some people can just move on very quickly.

[bowenw]

My guess is he is trying to get over it and looking for distractions.

[strateguy632]

Huh? After separation will even if did like you.

[Friendlybro79]

We're not all the same.

[strawberrybaby3]

I agree everyone deals with things differently

[Friendlybro79]

For sure. Many times we want to know how men or women feel in general but you're always going to get different answers. If I had to guess you're trying to understand why one person reacted a certain way and the only way to know why is to ask that person. No one else can really 100% speak for another person.

It's very difficult to answer these types of questions although I totally understand wanting to know why to these things.

[Danny_dan92]

This applies to people in general. Men and women