Why do guys want friends with benefits after breakup?

[Anonymous]

This is a guys question but why do guys break up with you because they are “focusing on themselves”or for other reasons but want to be friends/friends with benefits after? Did he ever love me and just wants to use me?

[AnonAndrew]

Because we like sex.

It really is as simple as that.

[jahaims]

So they can get lost in sex instead of emotionally processing the break up

[WhitneySnow]

They still want sex without the burden of a relationship

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women still want the guys attention AFTER she rejects him.

[Anonymous]

They like other aspects of the relationship.

[strateguy632]

For "getting some".