Guys, Why wanting to be friends with benefits with someone and not something more?

[Anonymous]

So i am with this guy who says he loves hanging out with me and keeps telling me he likes the way i look.. but he want us to be friends with benefits..

As guys, what makes you want to be friends with benefits with a girl and not more?

Ever happened to you that you started to catch feelings for your friends with benefits?

Ever happened to you that she chose to leave and get serious with someone else and then you regreted not tagging them?

Anyway I think i will cut him off because i am already starting to get attached and dont want to end up hurting, but i was wandering what is behind this, whats going on in that mind of yours:)

[spartan55]

He only wants free sex out of you because: he doesn't respect you, he is selfish, he doesn't like you enough to even date you, much less be in a relationship with you. But he will fuck you... sound like a good deal?
Don't go in thinking you will get the relationship upgrade later, because if that's what he wanted from you then you would already have it.

[Wise4myage]

Because they’re is no commitment with friends with benefits.

[Methis]

It honestly is just a way for guys to get your body yet keep options open for another girl