A guy I dated for a little while had a short relationship mostly like a friends with benefits; however, we thought about future together and we came to the conclusion that long term we aren’t meant to be. We went out separate ways from a 2 months. This week we ended up seeing each other again, long story short it was his idea to have sex again. I agreed, it was fun. I am okay with having sex with him casually not really more than that. He however refused to the idea because he felt like I am not respecting myself by seeing him even though I have no intentions of marrying him or anything like that. I was confused because I enjoy the casual sex and occasional cuddles and couple like things. He kept refusing the idea. It is confusing because it was his idea to have sex.
Why did he want to have sex but doesn’t want to be friends with benefits?
