Break Up & Divorce
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Romeo and juliet?

I recently got broken up with... It was an 8 year relationship, online... We met for like two weeks. Everything was picture perfect except. His family found out that I'm a different religion and he accepted that the kids would follow my religion. ( a lot happened there but I did not force him. If anything I encouraged him to seek advice before he made this decision) I don't know what his family told him. All I know is his church pastor was involved he got an intervention. His grandparents kicked him out of his house, he was told he would disappoint god and his father (who passed away a few years back and he is still traumatized by it) . He blocked me everywhere... After relentlessly trying to reach out to him he called back and apologized. Told me he can't talk now but he will explain later give him some time to think things through. He'd give himself 1 week and 1 week dedicated to me... Then he'll make a decision. He came back with his mind so damn sure... The whole time he kept talking like he was going to leave but I didn't believe it. I thought we were trying to give each other our best. The end of the week came and I asked him for his decision. He was so sure. I'm just... Hurt. I don't know what to think honestly, it's been a week I didn't say a word I said okay and we said our goodbyes. I don't know what to think, should I fight for him? But even if I do I don't want him to be unhappy with his faith and family. I'm so depressed. I don't know how to feel. Am I in the wrong for wanting him back? Should I call him and try to tell him he should have given us a chance I could have made him happy, but how can I ask someone to chose me over their family? I love him. I know he loves me deeply. This is so painful for him but I can't help but think he was pushed and pressured to make this decision. I... Don't know what to do or think.

Romeo and juliet?
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