How to heal from 8 year relationship ended with cheating and he lives with her?

[Anonymous]

It was 2 years and it still hurt to see them together.. he left me for her on our wedding day..

[ABC1x1x]

Scars hear over time. They will leave a mark. Find someone that wants to help you heal and you will find someone even more worthy of your love and you'll look at your scars and tell your children "this one? I don't remember how I got it, bit your father nursed me back to health" just kidding. Get a cat and hate men forever. Ha ha ha ha

[MFlint]

I've been through a similar situation and it hurts really bad. I totally understand. The best thing I did was move on and she was a distant memory before I knew it. If seeing him triggers emotions that you cannot control, avoid him until you feel that you've overcome these feelings. Don't guilt me yourself over it either.

[puppi]

Meet someone new, try not to think about it. Become the best version of yourself, good luck sis!

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake Grow Up start acting your age and get on with life... Simples!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[DecentLovelyMan]

Please just be yourswlf, try to get rid of it

You are grown woman, you are powerful, dont make yourself down

[bddddd]

I don't think there is any way for me to make right his wrongs. I'm sorry for the pain you have suffered.

[Staximus]

Did you live with this guy first before you planned on getting married?

[katiesmuff]

Just get on with your life and meet someone new.

[slatyb]

Have you considered counseling?