Should I abort the baby?

[Anonymous]

So my ex basically told me he wasn’t really interested in me and that he was only having sex with me because i wanted to and that he didn’t see me as someone he wanted to be with. He said he’s been trying to break up with me numerous times but i kept pursuing the relationship and that i should’ve known we weren’t going anywhere serious by the way he was acting

This conversation happened when i told him i was pregnant after he ghosted me


He told me all this after i told him i was pregnant with his child.

So i agreed to get an abortion and made an appointment since he didn’t want me or the baby. I told him he had to pay for the abortion and to send me the money. He told me he wasn’t sending any money unless he came to the appointment. I told him i didn’t need him at the appointment and wanted to go alone because i didn’t want to see him” and he said “ i didn’t do anything to you so you not wanting me there because you don’t want to see me is crazy just relax”

TL😃R; ex admitted to not wanting me blaming me for pregnancy

[Quigly]

He's obviously terrified, it's as much his fault and responsibility. now he is running away.

Don't be scared just because he is, Don't do anything irrational right away, you have a little time to make a decision.

There are a lot more questions to be answered.

Much of the fear can come from maybe a false perception of the family support that you have around you or that he has around him.

If you have some family or friends you should talk it over with them about your pregnancy. You might find that you have more support than you realized and they are willing to help when it comes to raising the child.

They have experience with this type of situation with benefits and resources that can help.

Remember, the child doesn't just have a mother and father. There are Grandparents that should be considered here also. Even aunts and uncles if they are willing to help. His parents likely think he's an idiot too.

You might be surprised by your own family and what they are willing to do for you and your baby.

[Asker]

Am i wrong if i keep the baby?

[Quigly]

No, why would you be wrong?
It's your choice to keep and love your child.

[jahaims]

Now you have to kill a baby because you let trash dump inside of you

[Anonymous]

He wants to go to the appointment with you so he knows where the money is going for sure and you don’t pocket it. He doesn’t trust you. Anyway you’ve asked this several times, your window is closing for you to get this procedure done. So make up your mind and stick to it.

[Opinion Owner]

PS are you gonna delete that guys comment every time he exposes you DevKDomK?

[Fanfare690]

He doesn't want u he wants to make sure you're getting an abortion to pay for it

[Asker]

Should i abort if i want to keep it

[Fanfare690]

If you want to keep it and be a single mother... do it. Its very fucking hard being a single mother

[Anonymous]

Don't abort that poor baby. Take it to safe haven baby box its your fault for not having safe sex. Not the baby.

[RedInnocent69]

It’s a difficult personal decision that needs a personal support network whichever you way decide

[Anonymous]

Yeah. Abort it. It looks like you are in a rather rough situation. Itll get worse with a kid.

[Anonymous]

Birth control people!