Why would my boyfriend lie to me all this time? Why is dating difficult for very tall women?

[AmazonChick171]

So this weekend I ended things with my new boyfriend because I went over to his house and knocked on the door. He left his watch and then I heard sounds coming out of a room. I called and texted him but no answer. I heard another girl saying, “Oooh spank me” or “do me hard”. He saw me look in the indie and I screamed at him. He opened the door and barged in! I cussed him out for cheating on me and thought he liked me. He said, “It isn’t what it looks like! I swear!”

This girl looked up and with a shocked look, “Holy shit! You’re……”

I cut her off and said, “Tall I know!
Then she said, “And skinny as hell! No wonder (his name) was planning to dump your ass.”
I glare at him and said he was going to break up with me and instead seeing another girl. Then he bluntly said, “Well what did I you expect? You haven’t been around! Ever since you got that promotion at work you worked more hours and no time for me! Plus you’re 6’4! Did you really think I wanted to spend my life with a woman that huge. Yes I lied to you. The only reason I showed interest is to show off. Now I got a real woman. Short and thick.”

wow…. he said he didn’t care about my height and all but it was all a lie. A HUGE lie. We dated for four in a half months. Next week would have been five months. I slammed his watch and shoved him and walked off. I broke up with him. I am DONE! D-O-N-E!! My dating life is a living hell! I will NEVER FIND A GOOD MAN! Never! People say short men like tallow me but it isn’t true!
He’s 5’6 and mentioned that his tramp woman is 5’1. Yes I said tramp. Men don’t lit tall women over 5’7 especially women 6’0 and over. Dating as a 6’4 woman sucks.

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1 y

I’m very heartbroken with this break up. My brother said, “Told you he wasn’t right for you. You’ll get over it.”

[OneViewpoint]

You're 26. You met a jackass. All is not lost. Don't give up because of one insecure guy with a Napoleon complex (little man syndrome). Try to make better choices going forward. Easy to say but, maybe look for guys 6' and above.

I met a woman a couple of weeks ago. Probably about your height and early 30's. And hot as hell. She's a Brazilian pro beach volleyball player. Super nice. New to my area. She sat next to me and eventually integrated with the group of guys I was hanging out with. We all thought she was great. But she wasn't looking for love. She was trying to get settled in a new place. I'll probably run into her again.

[AmazonChick171]

I did. I might as well give up. Most guys 6ft and over won’t even look at me. A 6’11 guy told me that he prefers women under 5’7 so he likes 4’10-5’5 women and he doesn’t want gigantic children so he doesn’t find tall women especially over six feet attractive. A 6’6 guy I went on a date with didn’t talk to me again after our first date because he preferred you guessed it….. short women! I saw his page a while back that he’s happier with his new girl. She’s tiny and petite. Tall guys don’t like tall women.

[Anonymous]

I have seen you have difficulty because of your height for a long time. My advice would be for you to find a submissive man that likes you being taller than him so at least you have someone that truly wants and desires you. If you are willing to be more dominant you may have success.

[exitseven]

I do not know what to say. You seem really nice and very interested. I was getting a plastic brace made for my broken wrist and the technician was probably 6'4"
I thought she was beautiful. I told her that she did such a great job that I might break the other wrist. She probably thought I was a dirty old man.

[Berethor]

Well I am not surprised that he prefer a 5’1 short woman over 6’4 giant woman.

[AmazonChick171]

You just want to make me feel bed about being a 6’4. He cheated on me and you support that?

[Berethor]

I don't support cheating but in that case it was expected, he want woman shorter than him.

[AmazonChick171]

Okay but what the hell do you mean EXPECTED?

[Berethor]

It was anticipated, likely to happen, short women make men to feel more masculine.

[AmazonChick171]

Yawn! Heard it before. So what the hell an I supposed to do, stay single?

[Berethor]

Looks like you don't have much of a choice but to stay single, or look for very tall man.

[Mpodere]

Do you think he cheated on you because you are tall? In my opinion because he is an asshole

[AmazonChick171]

Well he cheated on me because he said I worked too much it I do make time

[Mpodere]

He is still an asshole 😅
It is true that many guys feel more comfortable with short women but it is a subjective thing.
In my opinion a 6'4 tall girl should also be fit

[DJB72]

How insecure does he have to be to be intimidated by your height? I'm sorry you're hurting, but you've dodged a bullet

[beefcakebradybatson]

At 5'81/2", I'd date a 5'10" woman, though she'd likely shun me for a six-two or taller dude.

[AmazonChick171]

Well some taller ladies like shorter men but let’s me real most women want a man taller than them.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I know.

[Arcadian222]

What do you mean tall and slim and 'not thick'.

How much do you weigh being 6'4"?

[AmazonChick171]

What’s wrong with being slim? I’m 155lbs

[AmazonChick171]

That’s a rude question to ask a woman but whatever

[Arcadian222]

No, I didn't mean to ask your weight like that. I meant you mentioned in your post that your boyfriend said you aren't thick or very thin etc etc. Being slim is perfect and 155lbs is very good. a lot of models are slim amd tall, and its considered a sign of beauty.
You aren't anorexic or anything, then probably HIS taste was different. But that doesn't justify him cheating.

Sorry for confusion

[msc545]

He is probably sick of you obsessing over your height; I know the rest of us are.

[eagle1951]

Hang in there, you'll find the right Guy when you least expect it

[AmazonChick171]

I hope so. What man wants to marry a 6’4

[eagle1951]

i'm to old or i would say me, when i was 16 I was on a blind date with a girl who was 6'5 i was 6' did not bother me

[AmazonChick171]

That’s so cool

[Arcadian222]

@AmazonChick171
There are lots of guys into taller ladies. I love them. You will find

[robocop666]

I dont mind tall women 5"11 is perfect for me

[Jennz6]

I’m not really sure what you can do

[AmazonChick171]

I’m giving up dating

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
Don’t give up

[AmazonChick171]

Why shouldn’t I? No man wants to date a very tall woman. I always get cheated on or dumped for shorter women like 5’6 and under.

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
I’m 5’4”

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
Are you by chance bi-curious?

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171

Girls only, would you let another girl eat your pussy? ↗

[AmazonChick171]

Okay and? Most guys love women your height. I wish I was shorter like 5’5, 5’2 or even 5’9!

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
Switch to the other team

[AmazonChick171]

What do you mean?

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
Try sex with a girl

[AmazonChick171]

Hell no! How do two women have sex?

[Jennz6]

@AmazonChick171
Sorry

[TallAnon]

Low effort tbh

[AmazonChick171]

Who me or him?

[TallAnon]

Yes.