Why does my boyfriend always lie to me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend always says to me he apologised to people when he didn't, he says he doesn't take drugs but then apparently takes them behind my back, and he lies about loads of small things. How can I know I can trust him when he lies to me? I know he's lying but he refuses to admit it. What should I do?

[OlderAndWiser]

You can't really know why he has done these things, but you could ask yourself why you have continued to have him as a boyfriend after you know that he has lied to you.

[Bfly004]

To be in a relationship you need to be able to trust... the things you have found out is because you did your own detective work. Imagine those things you still dnt know or how your life would be down the road. See this as a huge red flag and let go. It will save you heartache

[Guy13]

Assume it will not change and decide whether you can live day-in and day-out with it ⁉️

[BarryLiverstone]

Set expectations that if he continues to lie there will be consequences

[Anonymous]

You make him feel like the truth would be used against him.

[Hydrogen]

Dump him