Women in your 20’s, you’re on a date 2 with a 28 YO guy, find out he divorced (she cheated) no kids or attachments etc, is this a turn off?

[Anonymous]

As stated. Ex wife cheated. We split. No kids. No ties to her at all anymore. Basically an LTR. Worried it’ll rule out a lot of dating prospect tough. I’m 27 and not interested in women older than me.

[TrueConfection]

I would want to know how long he was married and if he still has feelings for her.

My husband was divorced, no kids, wife left him for another man. He was over her. However, it’s many years later, I still don’t feel like the playing field is level. It’s my first and only marriage. It shouldn’t matter, but sometimes it bothers me.

[Asker]

How old were you? Again I’m 27 so wondering how women 23-28 feel. Not interested in older. We were married 2 years. Been split nearly 2 now. No lingering feelings. Had a great therapist to work through the betrayal.

[TrueConfection]

I was 25

[dustybiker2]

Depends if you hold onto baggage from that damage. The next person deserves a fair chance of showing she isn't a cheater.

[Asker]

Would you have felt this was at 24? I’m only 27 and it’s worrisome only 40+ women are responding.

But yes I seen a great therapist and there’s no baggage. She cheated because she was an extremely broken person with a terrible upbringing. That failure doesn’t reflect on someone else.

[dustybiker2]

Damage is damage doesn't matter how old you are.

Then if it's true sounds like you're good to go. Have fun finding your person.

[Asker]

I know, but I’m just saying I worry as my age demographic is less familiar with it in general and nearly all ‘never married’ category. Not interested in women older than me. So worried how it looks etc

[dustybiker2]

Be stable m, genuine and open to fun and you're already ahead of the pack.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Why are you spamming this question?

[Asker]

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