I cheated 9 months ago, he said he will give me a second chance now he been abusive to me every chance he get. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

He said he wouldn't hurt me but he been Abusive verbally and physically by calling me a bitch and terrible mom to spitting on me and choking me to where I threw up blood and making death threats saying he would slit my throat. He got drinking issues since we been together and always argued and he either slap me or call me out of name before the cheating.

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9 mo

I know I wasn't in the right but do you think it was fair he hurt me physically tho?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Look... even a pimp is going to get pissed off at you cheating like that and all of his behaviors is what I would expect. I don't blame him.

Meanwhile, my attention span gets drawn right back to you. You're doing nothing but pissing this man off, you're cheating on him, and I'm going to guess that maybe you even begged him to stay in this turmoil, which isn't good for him at all.

I'm guessing you tried to monkey branch or you're just addicted to male attention and was willing to damage your relationship for that... well.. you damaged it. He might eventually start to get over it to a point but it's always going to be in his mind... You're a slut, a cheating slut, and you would just do that then... so why not now? Oh you learned your lesson he might hear, but at the same time there were probably tons of instances where you were leading in that direction and didn't change then, and now you finally did it.

You need to get real with yourself, this guy is feeling pain by being with you at this point. The fact that you're capable of manipulating him like that again isn't going to just go away. Perhaps you were hoping he was a cuck f***** type that would sort of get turned on by the whole thing... well, you were wrong. You destroyed this relationship already. It's time to move the fuck on and quit dragging him along with you. You didn't like him that much anyway... I mean think about it... you were willing to cheat on him.

The dream is dead, time to let it go and get out of there. He's just really pissed now so, what? You gonna stay until he makes good on his threats? I think what he's doing is bad just like these other broke back mountain bitches would think, but I sort of think you're going to get what you fucking deserve. Cut your losses and get out of there if you don't want that.

[Anonymous]

Ok well this is a no brainer. I don’t even know why you had a kid w him to begin w if he had alcohol issues. I don’t agree w him being abusive physically. As far as him calling you names, well you cheated on him so I can’t blame him for that. Not something I would do but I’m not him. Leave before you end up KIA.

[loveyouoak]

Was your husband always like this, or did he start acting this way after you cheated?

[On_cloud_wine]

I’m sure you know what you should do. Don’t be silly

[OneViewpoint]

He's has drinking issues at 18-24. You're cheating on him. He's slapping you around and threatening to kill you. You have a kid or kids at age 18-24. What's the weather like in the Tennessee hill country at the moment. You and Ray Bob, are what's known as a train wreck. But you both seem to make excellent decisions so I'm sure you'll both figure this out in a rational manner.

[On_cloud_wine]

😭😂😂

[Stevepro68]

You need to escape once someone has hurt you they will never stop. Eventually they will detest you for your weakness. They are the problem they are like a bucket with a hole at the bottom. Violence is their answer for the emotional problems they have. Drinking drugs makes the inhibition less but is not the cause. There are only 2 outcomes you get away or he kills you eventually.

[Abbycado]

He shouldn't have given your cheating ass a second chance. There is no excuse for physical abuse. Calling you what you are, I can defend that.

[HollyK21]

This person is sick in the head Abby. I’ve seen this post several times over the past few months, acting as if it just happened and never responding to any answers. I don't know why people are so goddamn weird but here we are😩

[Abbycado]

Well fuck these damn anons then. God I hate em

[HollyK21]

Right? To think that we encounter people like these disturbed ass anons on the daily and have no clue😭

[Miristheiss]

Never try for a committed LTR again. You are a tramp. Just go be one night stand material at the clubs. That is all you are worthy of.

[abc3643]

Move on. Which should have done the instant you cheated.

[Berethor]

You cheated on him so I think that you deserve that, hos are despicable women.

[Anonymous]

You are fire and oil. Restraining orders if needed. Move on.

[Wise4myage]

Break up and move on, and learn from your mistake.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Girl, leave

[slatyb]

You should leave.

[Anonymous]

What do you expect? He treats you as you deserve.

[jahaims]

Trash

[msc545]

Leave.