How can I get over my ex? we dated for 4 years and broken up in October and it’s been hard ever since?

[SecretAdmirer]

[SueShe]

You are the only one that can help that situation.

In order to have friends or a boyfriend, you must be proactive and find friends. They will not just pop up in your life without you being involved in the relation. Best is to join a club, take a hobby where you can meet people with similar interests.

If you are good at one specific occupation, then see if you can find a club or place where others meet that share that passion. The rest will just fall automatically into place. Sharing the same interests with a person is always a good start to get to know that person better because you have common grounds.

But without you wanting and acting upon it, nothing will ever happen. You have to get out of your comfort zone for it to happen. The most important is not to be afraid to fail. If you are rejected, get back onto your feet and try again.

[katiesmuff]

Lots of fish left in the pond so get off of the sad sorry trip as your just a kid to begin with and quite sure a few more heartthrobs will pass through your loins before mr right ever arrives.

[wkhan_87]

Even it's hard , but stay strong and move on
Time will fix your problem

[Nikki1989]

Meet someone else. You are only 17.

[dudeinohio]

Find someone new. You'll soon forget the ex, then.

[In_Trance]

Meet someone else

[Daytoday79]

Find someone else