I just want a guy’s perspective on this matter pretty much?

[Anonymous]

So me and my ex we still live together. It’s been about five months since our break up we’re still very intimate still do couple things that aren’t saying we’re just friends and it’s like one minute he’s hot and then he’s cold and we’re going back in circles and then we’ll have this one big argument where we’re basically talking about the relationship that we used to have in.
Yes, I didn’t want to break up but he did. He says it’s like we’re more friends than we are a couple which I’m not the type of woman to nag or tell you to get off the game or anything like that because myself I’m a gamer I like to play video games I don’t like when people nag me you know I still did womanly duties like I still cooked. I cleaned. I make sure she was OK and all this stuff I can’t say sometimes my communication wasn’t the best. you know which I had told him you know from past relationships I tend to shut down a little bit and I said I’m working on it and I was working on it and I have I’ve grown a lot from it. have 9a-year-old daughter and he said she is 60% of the reason why our relationship didn’t work because I wouldn’t take his advice and discipline her in all of that and it wasn’t that it was more so He doesn’t have kids to understand certain things take time and you can’t just automatically change and just start disciplining them in a way. like my child has dad issues for sure her and her dad does not have the best relationship and that’s what I’ve been trying to explain but that’s the size of the point. I’m just trying to figure out why is he staying with me when any other time he was quick to move out when he broke up?

[Anonymous]

You really need an answer to this? Free sex. Food, cost of living is cheaper. You’re there to do things for him still so he’s getting free labor. There’s a lot of reasons. It sounds like your situation is a basket case that he got tired of. But at the same time he’s getting all these benefits w out commitment.

[Purpleronnie]

In what world does this situation make any sense?


Your split up but in real terms nothing real is separated , and neither of you seem like you care enough to change it for yourself or for the child?


I’d say it’s pretty pathetic , either sort out your issues and be a couple or decide how to move on with your lives separately

[integrale77]

If your split up then you need to split up basically your living there hoping to continue the relationship. He's living there thinking great I have a live in maid I don't have to pay and get sex occasionally.

You or he need to move out!

[dudeinohio]

You two need to live apart and then cut off all contact and communication. You are still. in a relationship.

Time to. move on.

[Pterodon]

You haven’t broken up if you’re still living together and fucking

[In_Trance]

So he's not your ex

[Asker]

He is my ex I’m just trying to to figure out this limbo situation we’re having. Are we just friends if so why keep pulling me backwards if he moved on but flips it on me that I’m stopping him from moving on.

[In_Trance]

Try explaining that to a potential boyfriend on a first date