Do you ever find it hard to break up with someone?

[NoDecision]

There are always two sides to every story, and breakups always have some. Are you relieved sometimes when someone dumps you, or do you fight to get back together again?

[ohsheeT]

Well of course I would wantnto understand why

But you can't make anybody love you and if you even try it's not going to be real , it's going to be fake , because whatever you're doing to try to make that call back in love

And of course, it's hard to break up, you don't wanna hurt somebody and at the same time, you don't wanna be in a place that you don't wanna be in, so it's pretty tricky.

Just depends on the reasoning behind the breakup.\nThe person that wants to break up must have a good reason

The other person would have probably liked to know the lot sooner so they could have worked on it. But that when it happens or if it happens , you have to knowledge it and then accept it. It's going to hurt but if you truly know who you are, you're not going to worry that much about it, I mean you will, but you know, you have to go forward anyway.

And the best thing to do is to weigh it out , because no matter what happens to us , that is negative , long run , what's your accepted , there will be something good come from it

[Tarifa]

I've had many break-ups. Sometimes I was the one who ended it, as I saw it wasn't going anywhere. Other times, they were the ones who broke my heart.

Only once have I tried to get back with someone, but to no avail. In all honesty, I gave up too quickly, in spite of the signs she was giving me. I regret it to this day, but you learn to move on.

What's your experience?

[NoDecision]

20/20 hindsight it seems like.

[Tarifa]

Thanks for the MHO.

[NathanDavis]

I won't say it was easy because it wasn't... but difficult is not the word either

it was out of mutual agreement, and after some months of considering a further future together... we were just aiming for very different things moving forward, so... after that was very clear, we were okay with it and it wasn't hard... it was just the right thing to do, lol

[TonyMetal___86]

Fought hard because i didn't believe in divorce, even though a part of me had enough but i had faith that everything can be fixed cause in a lasting marriage, nothing should be impossible, but sadly she had surrendered and divorced 🤷🏻‍♂️

I'm relieved because i know that i wasn't the one breaking my promises and filing for a divorce!

[exitseven]

One time I did it over the phone and it was hard. Afterwards I wondered if I made a mistake. When I woke up the next day the world really did look different to me.

[aaron13547]

Indeed, the only thing I hate more then letting myself down, is letting someone else down...

[Shy-boy53]

It’s one of the hardest things I’ve ever had to do

[dudeinohio]

Most of the time I was relieved when I got dumped.

[NoDecision]

Not everyone can say that so good for you. 👍🏼

[AgentG111]

Yes there's been a few that were hard.

[MikeTheBartender]

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