My ex and I had been together for almost 2 years when I thought I had serious feelings for one of his best friends (I hooked up with the friend long before I met my ex) to get it off my chest I wrote it in my diary..
a few weeks later I broke up with my ex because I realized the feelings for the friend weren't real feelings I just wasn't happy in the relationship.
it has been around 4 months since my ex and I first broke up and in that time we have been casually seeing each other and have recently talked about getting back together.
the other day over a discussion about why he is always jealous of me hanging out with my guy mates he revealed that the reason he is so jealous is because he read what I wrote about his friend in my diary! and he read it just before I broke up with him, so he has been keeping the fact that he read it from me for these past 4 months!
i'm so angry at him for invading my privacy like that, I feel hurt and embarrassed that he hasn't said anything to me this whole time, and I feel like we can never be the same around each other again. he still wants to get back together though.
sorry its so long, I really need some advice or something!
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No trust, the relationship will NOT last if you get together, best course of action is to either just stay friends or nothing at all.
And if you and him do get back together (which I do not advise) then you and he will not trust each other at all leading to fights and hurt feelings. Just save yourself the heartache.0