He hadn't contacted me in 3 months - he got over me?

[Anonymous]

I liked him A LOT, he only liked me as a friend (which i accepted). I tried to be normal friends for two years but I just couldnt anymore.

In a big argument 3 months ago i told him everything he did to me (he took advantage of me - sexually too, he took my virginity, he knew i wanted to wait for the special guy - a lot cause he knew i liked him). But he never accepted his mistakes or even apologized.
So 3 months ago I wrote him an email (cause he had blocked me everywhere else) and told him to never contact me again. It wasn't the first time I said this to him, he always contacted me max after 1 month. But this time is different. Its been 3 months and i miss him badly even though he's no good for me.

what can i do to forget him? Im trying everything you can imagine. Please tell me my feelings for this guy will fade...

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Anyone? Please?

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Thanks...

My thoughts are driving me crazy. I just can't get rid of them.

[user5546773]

You are in 25-29.

Here is the thing. That feeling won't go easily. But that WILL go if you really want it to.

He didn't loved you. He is probably now dating someone else. He took your veginity, he knew he wasn't the one for you but still he slept with you. What else reasons you want.

Tell yourself what he did. You know, I just lost my best friend and I learnt a thing that for forgetting someone of getting angry on someone, you have to remember the worst thing he did. I tried and it worked.

Now, make a visualize image of what bad he did. Maybe write it on a paper with black marker. Read all that. Write the worst you could. (You want to forget him) read that everyday. You will get a fire in you.

I have a video for you to forget that dumb ass (sorry, can't control). If you want the link, you can message me as replies link doesn't work i think.

(I am a decent boy. Don't think i will flirt with you.)

Coming to you. As i said, try that. If it doesn't work contact me. I will help you

[Asker]

Please show me the video here. I dont wanna contact people unanon. Just tell me the title of the video.

[user5546773]

😁😁. I understand. Anyway let me sent you the link

[user5546773]

https://youtu.be/v9ns9ULCvIA

[user5546773]

Wait!!!

[user5546773]

It is for boys so make sure to do them as a girl's perspective

[Asker]

Yeah he is roght woth everything and i actually follow alö those things he said. But im still thinking about him 24/7...

[user5546773]

Really? Have you tried being in a relationship with another guy? Or having friends all around you or going on trips

[user5546773]

If so than what do you think was special in him?

[Snomandave]

Your feelings will fade over time as you start meeting new people but honestly you'll never fully forget him as he was your first. You did the right thing by letting go of him but it seems like you need some type of closure too. I think if he does ever respond back just try to control those rush of feelings and move on. You will ger through it and it will be hard but time heals all wounds. I know its cliche to say those things, especially with how you feel about him, but learning from experience with unrequited love, its just a matter of time. Put yourself back out there and make sure you know you can find someone who feels just as deeply as you do for them.

[Asker]

Wow very good words from you. Thank you very much!

[BrittBratt2416]

Just give it time, you will get it over it eventually.