If your ex-boyfriend asks about you..

[itsaluxury]

What does it mean if your ex-boyfriend asks about you/how your doing? My ex asked his pal (whos dating one of my best friends) all about me...how I am...whats new... Does it mean he still cares?

[LaLa19Inu7]

Well are you guys still friends? Or was the break-up a horrible one? If you guys were somewhat cool when you broke up then why can't he ask? maybe as a friend he just wants to know. I mean how long ago have you guys last talked?

And you say "still cares?"? Are you implying that you want to get back together with him because if you didn't then it shouldn't really matter to you if he possibly does care or not?

[Anonymous]

Well, he does certainly care about you if he wants to know how you're doing. It could be that he still likes you or that he feels bad about any pain he caused you when you broke up and he wants to make sure you're okay (because he still cares as a friend, but isn't necessarily ready to reconcile the guilt he feels) without dealing with the awkwardness of asking you directly.

[dreadnaught]

not always some guys are just nice or girls are nice, it can sometimes yes they do but most of the time not really

[Anonymous]

yeah, or he's just wondering how you're doing...

[JayCutler]

yes that means he still care about you cause if he didn't then he would never ask