Is my ex-boyfriend trying to control me?

[chaselove88]

My ex-boyfriend and I been apart for 3 months and since then he started dating his new girlfriend 2 months ago. And, I started talking to someone else also, but it seem to me that he is trying to control who I talk to he don't want me to talk to the person that I'm talking to he ask question like have I had sex with the person yet or do that person touch me. He told me that he still love me and that he miss cuddling with me. But, I know that he stills cares about me I just feel like he trying to control me because he tells his new girlfriend that he loves her so it can't be he still in love with me so it must be he trying to control me right.

[Kickrockslosers]

Uh... he's a loser! You need to just keep talking to the guy that you're dealing with. Your X is just steaming, thinking about another guy having what he used to have. Nothing more than that. If he loved you, he wouldn't have let you get away.

You're young and probably don't recognize this. So, I'm going to give it to you straight. It's not about his love for you, it's about his ego. If he loved you that much, he would ditch the other chick quickly. The sound that you heard coming out of his mouth is his precious male ego being crushed. WHAT'S LOVE GOT TO DO WITH IT? NOTHING!

Move on and keep him out of your business so that he doesn't ruin your relationship with your new guy. Other than that, he's just playing games and you will end up getting hurt if you fall into his 'baby I miss you's'. KRL... Tell him to kickrocks!

[Anonymous]

Well don't answer. What you do is your business. He's not your man anymore. He's trying to see if he still has a hold on you, he's trying to play you and his girlfriend both. If he's telling both of you that he loves you he's lying to one or both of you.

[SWEETNESS]

he is trying to get the best from both worlds. let him be because some one will get hurt, and that is not good. tell him him to chill with his comments and what not.

[Alan1981UK]

Sounds like the old sayin doesn't want you but does not want anyone else to have you. Maybe the thing is that he could just be tryin to keep you holding on incase his new relationship don't work out so you can be his back up. The simple fact is he don't want you to move on and I think ya should do what makes ya happy but beware he might be playing mind games with you. Good luck ps this guy sounds like the classic case of a player

[ScubaDate]

YES! Of course, every guy wants every girl to himself. Nobody likes to share. Any guy that tells you he "loves" you is full of crap. Guys just say that to play with your mind. Definitely more of a high school thing to do.

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[lolfreddy]

pfft cut him off your life. He doesn't want what's best for you, he just wants what's best for him. You deserve better hun.

[bigmike]

He still loves you and he just wanted to get over you before you moved on but its apparent he hasn't moved on entirely. I realize it makes no sense but that's a been there done that kinda thing.