What do I do now? One day he loves me the next day he hates me?

[Anonymous]

Basicly, me and my ex broke up beacuse apparently he was always making me upset and he wanted to make me happy, we ignored each other for a while and then for the weekend we started talking and ALL weekend we were always talking ans acting like best friends saying "love you" and then yesterday he went out with this girl who he liked and now he's treating me like he doesn't know me? from "I love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxx" to "bye x" how do I regain our friendship?

[wordsOFwisdom]

Really/ You want to be friends with him after going with another woman that fast? This is what you do. It's his turn! Ignore all his calls and text messages for a while. Don't act like some insurance for him, "oh if it doesn't work out with his new chick, your there" Put his ass on the spot. Once he gets no reply after texting you, he will loose it and begin tasting what you went through. Then after a couple days, if he insist on calling, go ahead and answer and act positive and happy. He will know your not having it. Your over it.

[Asker]

thanks for the advice! but the thing is that weekend he was always trying to speak to me? always talking and now he wouldn't even talk to me? he won't start the convo?

[sasa1]

i don't get it. he is your ex. then you two acted like best friends. then your "ex" went out with someone. I think that's normal. I think he's not ignoring you on purpose, remember he's going out with someone. you won't like your new guy still close to his girlfriend do you?

[Asker]

Hes not going out with her, and you don't get it, as in we addmited we liked each other and now he's avoiding me and I'm 100% sure he is and treating e like he doesn't know me? why? I odnt mind him going out with other girls but how has he COMPLETLY changed his actions towards me?

[sasa1]

sorry about that. make yourself more attractive and talk to him. if he still don't know you, don't waste your time. a guy like that is bad.

[Asker]

thanks! but I sit next to him in lesons and a lot of times he just has his head down and looks really really moody:L