My boyfriend says he hates me, but also loves me?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been having arguments lately, but to be honest, we always have done. But lately I've said things like "well don't be with me then!" and then he's all "fine, fuck you" and then we'll break up, but he can never let go completely because he says he loves me, and I guess that conflicts with the "hate" and he says he feels both at the same time.
He'll play this song and sing along to it as he's pointing at me, asshole

When we're having particularly vicious arguments he'll tell me that he fucking hates me and I'm beginning to make him despise me, however this never seems to be completely true because he still loves me and he can't stay away for long.

I know our relationship sounds really shitty, but it's not always like that. We'll also have wonderful times together which always makes me realise my love for him is deeper than I sometimes think, we have passionate sex, i think he's got a good heart but problems as well.
Like him, I seriously dislike him other times.
He thinks I'm cheating and gets jealous I'll find someone else, I don't want him being with anyone else either, I want him for myself.

I know people will say "this isn't healthy you need to breakup", but it's not that easy. When we have a "breakup" it's all I think about and I miss him a lot.

How is this possible, to love someone but also hate them?

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[Anonymous]

It is called "familiarity". You are just there and are familiar to him. He does not have to work hard as if he were wooing a girl from scratch.

He does not truly love you. You are just convenient for him. No guy that truly loves you would ever even joke about hating you

[Bobdisisj]

You have to analyze how he’s feeling. As a man it’s so easy to hide your emotions when you can’t express them. Of course what he’s doing saying fuck you and doing immature shit isn’t cool. But look in the mirror and ask yourself what are you doing? Why does he have such hate and resentment towards you that isn’t normal? Before any of you females talk shit get both sides to the story. Talk to him in a chill way don’t nag him or try to pressure him. If he can’t have a normal conversation then honestly it’s over just leave. Wish you the best

[holograph]

No, trust me, it is that easy. You need to break up.

It might not be easy to accept that, but the solution is seriously that easy. And it is the only solution that's going to last.

One breakup is the maximum. There is no such thing as a relationship that goes from this to being a normal, respectful, loving relationship. Often it just gets worse from here.

[Billlewis]

That's probably because you're so mean to him, but you're also gorgeous... lol

[BrittBratt2416]

Please end it.. this relationship is a mess