My boyfriend is use to girls depending on him but I'm use to doing stuff myself, he complains that it's not ladylike but I grew up with a single mom and 4 older sisters, getting stuff done myself if I want something is all I know, nth else. I have tried to make him feel more involved when he offered to buy me a pair of shoes, I waited 2 weeks then I never brought it up again and went a bought it myself. He got mad hhat I didn't remind I did twice afterwards. He also complains about when he offers to buy ne food outside I reject saying I have food, he has 2 daughters so I'm being considerate, I don't need him to impress me with all that. He says if I keep going pike this men will think they don't have to take care, I asked y would I need a man to take care of me, I've made it to 3rd year of uni by myself working night shifts so my mom doesn't have to stress about it. I have a lot of side hustles too, then he gets mad and calls me a bitch, was I too much and upset him. He also loves accusing me of sleeping with students at the boy school I tutor when I leave class a few minutes late , he asks if we were fu... king then says it's a joke but his laugh sounds fake, like it wasn't a joke, I tell him I don't find it funny but he keeps doing it, I broke up with him a few weeks ago. My friends didn't know and gave him my new number so I changed that too, did I dodge a bullet.
Y does he hate how confident I am?
