Girls, during a "sugar coated" break up, at what point do you break and say the truth?

[coolbeans01]

If you had broken up with a guy and you sugar coated it and didn't exactly say "I don't like you any more" and instead said something like "my life is to busy"/"I'm not looking for a relationship"/"I need some time to think" or any thing else that didn't state directly what you meant. If the guy kept questioning you, not in a rude way but in a way of caring and trying to find out what it is that you mean exactly (i.e. That you just don't like him any more) at what point would you break and just give in and say the truth, would it be something he says or just the fact that he keeps bringing it up, like multiple days in a row, almost a week? What's the breaking point?

[No1Listens21]

lol. Honestly, don't believe people who are nice deserve to be shot in the face. Maybe you could sugar coat in a different way or not. you could tell him the truth but in the most gentle way so he's not hurt by it. Tell him that you do not share those feelings with him and to you right now wait your a guy?...hmm...lol...just noticed that. lol. wow. hahaha. anyways! - right now that you don't see a way for you two to be together because there isn't anything there for you. AND he shouldn't want to either because why push for something when you know the other person isn't going to come around and most likely never will. They should move their efforts toward something worth while and with someone who will make them as happy as they are willing to make the other person.

[coolbeans01]

of course he should move on but I'm saying that if during the break up the girl does it in a way that still "provides" hope, but which is just false, and the guy keeps asking questions or commenting on that, possibly day after day, would it not get to a point where the girl feels bad, knowing that she was providing some false hope by not just stating directly that she doesn't like him, and eventually break the "nice/sugar coat" routine and just say what she really feels? I'm not saying she snaps

[No1Listens21]

just like guys sometimes they keep them on the hook for their benefit.

[Gustafsone12584]

What? For one, why don't you start telling the truth from the begging, secondly why just ask woman?. I believe it's a universal area in which you tell the truth anyway. If your not, your just making a big lie out of the relationship, or friendship... Kinda plain, and simple if you ask me...

[kheserthorpe]

Why are they still talking?

[Anonymous]

I prefer to "candy coat" it ;)

[coolbeans01]

i see you also prefer not to answer questions