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I think she has mixed feelings. She is obviously not entirely over her ex and the fact that she texts him while you are her boyfriend is dam right disrespectful I think it would be better for you to end it she seems to be using you. If you don't want to talk to her lay everything down and tell her how you feel and that she shouldn't be texting him if she will not stop talking to him for you you shouldn't be with her10
I read it all lol but I don't get why she feels like she has to say it back? He's an EX - so why are they still saying I love you to each other? It doesn't make sense to me at all. I say just ask her for a better explanation and tell her you don't want to be with someone who still talks to her ex and may have some feelings for him still there.12
Alright I know you're not going to like what I'm going to say, but I'm going to say it anyway.
Stop acting like a bitch. You're 20. Don't get this worked up over a girl. It's not worth it, man. Don't let her jerk you around. You're a dude. Act like it. And, remember that he who cares the least, wins. If you're reading her messages and questioning her about it, you're pushing her away. You might as well be pushing his ass up and down on top of her right now. The "but baby" stuff is for nice guys, and you know what happens to them. Put your foot down or leave. Don't let her see you sulk like that.
Not saying it to be mean. Just trying to get you on the right track.41
As someone else said, don't get too worked up over it
yeah it definitely sucks no doubt about it... but if she is talking to her ex behind your back, how can you trust anything else she says? It might just be me having dealt with this a lot in my life, but I would leave her right this second, and go find a Nice girl who doesn't have emotional baggage.
You deserve it dude, good luck whatever you do
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Mate I've been there, my ex was like that she even dumped me to sleep with her ex and regretted it calling me crying two days later. I took her back but she kept chatting to him behind my back. I made her block him if she was serious about me and then I threatened him. He later moved on and found a perfect wife. Me on the other hand was left with this alcoholic mess who loved doing drugs and still wasn't all that trustworthy. I found photos of her ex she kept hidden in her house so I ripped them up. I literally helped her move on. Having this on a guys mental health messes things up in the bedroom. Viagra made her completely focus on me 9x in a night the but ultimately in the end I got her all to myself she was wanting a future with me but I realised I dealt with all her drunk abuse. All the gore vids she'd send me whilst at work. Guys havin faces pulled off literally. She used to dump me over everything when drunk and regret the next day before but as I didn't see a future with someone so unstable and the way I was disrespected wasn't what I want in a future wife. The hardest thing is to let go but man you'll be so glad when you're free from someone who has ex baggage. Find a sexy girl who deserves you. Someone who will love you right0
I'm so not reading the whole thing and I am shocked that a guy just wrote all of this. However, I did read the summary. Break up, you are way too into this relationship that seem to either lead to a dead end or your girl admitting that she loves her ex. Call it quits and get out of there.0
Either one, give her time or break up because she doesn't want to let go of him... sad because you do seem like a great guy.
I guess it's up to you as to how long you would wait for her to understand your point of view.10
Love is just the excuse people give to justify using people. I don't know why it works.
I'm not consuming all of your attention and preventing you from sleeping with other girls; I love you. It's very different!0
She is talking to him, and she's confused of who she wants, you should say to her that, she needs to stop communication with him, or you will leave her. And do it. It does not look so good. Good luck! She is not telling you all.0
I'm not reading all that, but ask yourself, why do you want her to say I love you when she doesn't mean it?22
I wouldn't deal with that drama baggage bullsh*t to be honest. This is why I don't get into relationships.11
WOW. This is a lot of stuff crammed into one block. Can you re-post it with a few paragraph breaks so it's easier to read? I want to offer advice, but the block's hard to read through. :)12
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u guys look happy ! but I don't deal with the whole ex thing I feel she needs to get rid of that baggage it is very disrespectful ..he still loves her and they have history !u need to set boundries ..its okay to feel the way you do and express it to her.how would she like it if you talk to your ex?i dono exs need to be out of the picture it isn't right.u don't like it , that's all that matters ...awe I'm srry ...make sure you tell her you don't like it and if she continues even though it bothers you then you haved to leave or stay but if it continues and you stay it doesn't seem like it is good for you .u might love her but I delt with the same ex sh*t there should be no reason they talk!unless they have kids I feel