To be honest... I am in a similar situation, but the thing is that I have a boyfriend of my own. My roommate is not my friend but I catch her boyfriend looking at me every now and then. Maybe because he is a bit uncomfortable or because he is my guest and he wants to respect me. But I think he is cute. Like really cute. His girlfriend, my roommate, is freaking beautiful though. I wouldn't see any reason why he would lust for another woman, but I like to imagine that he is lusting for me from time to time. The keyword is "imagine". You just want to feel pretty and imagine that you are her, your friend in a relationship because you aren't. See the reason why I "imagine" is because I am in a long distance relationship so I wish my guy was here like hers. You wish you had a guy, but you don't need a guy like him. He WILL treat you the same way he is treating her if he is truly having a thing for you. This "connection" is just you wanting a relationship and admiring what she has to the point that you want EXACTLY what she has and you figure you now have the chance to have it since the guy is a cheater and giving you that. But do you really want to be with someone who is willing to make another girl feel like she can have him?
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obvouisly you are held by your emotions - your attraction for him is overcoming your morals and what you intuitively KNOW you should do, which is not get involved with this guy. Why do you like him anyways? Is it because he is taken and you can't have him?
You are in a dangerous situation. You are in close proximity to someone you have a mutual crush on, whom is dating one of your best friends. I would back off emotionally, and tell him nothing can happen between you because you value your friendship.
But wow, he must feel like the fricken man though, he knows he can get laid by his girlfriend AND by you, I bet he talks to his buddies all the time about how he could potentially get with you too. but, he would be a dumbass to do so.
You really need to ask lol? He's planning to cheat on YOUR friend, is this the type of man you really want? You really think he won't cheat on you? Do you really want the reputation of "the other woman"?
If she is truly your best friend, you be a friend. You rebuff the man. You tell her that her sleeze boyfriend has been putting the moves on you.
Assuming of course you're actually interested in doing the right thing and not here asking for someone anyone to give you a big nod of approval to betray a friend and get controlled and played by a cheater.
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