I found out my mother cheated on my father 14 years ago....what to do?

My parents have been together for over 30 years. I recently found concrete evidence that my mother cheated on my father over a span of 2 years with 3 guys regularly roughly 14 years ago.

My mother is a homemaker and has never worked a real job. My father is disabled but still provides for the family. I honestly don't think they'd be able to make it without each other.

They swear they love each other and I have no clue if my father knows or not. I'm not sure how to handle this situation. Any ideas/suggestions?
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I don't want to hurt my father or mother but at the same time I know it's not right to hide it.
I found out my mother cheated on my father 14 years ago....what to do?
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