My boyfriend still gets gifts from his ex. Is this acceptable?

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Hello all. I am at a crucial point in my almost 2 year relationship.

My bf's ex sends him gifts occasionally. I put my foot down after the second time he got something from her. I know they talk frequently...a few times a week. He used to talk to her in front of me or give me the phone and read the text she sent him. But lately, he has been doing this behind my back. She lives very far away and there has been no physical contact between the two of them in about a year and a half...meaning they haven't been in the same room together. I feel that the gifting is disrespectful to me and I don't know what to do. I do care that he talks to her behind my back and not in front of me. He told me not to make her into something she is not but I can't help but to think that he is keeping her as an option. Any advice would be appreciated!
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Well, he got another gift. This time, I didn't say a word and acted as if everything was OK. He denied knowing that it was coming. I simply said...well I did. It was delivered by a mutual friend who called me to arrange the drop off time. Think I will let it go. She's just not worth my time! LOL
My boyfriend still gets gifts from his ex. Is this acceptable?
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