Honestly, I completely understand where you’re coming from and I would be a little upset too. I think that it’s okay to be upset about it- it’s not really rude or anything it’s more about the intention rather than the gift itself. It seems like you just want more thought put into what he gives you, rather than just a gift card. Maybe he’s just worried that your relationship will end as poorly as his last relationship so he’s trying to slow everything down with you. It’s really hard to tell. Men usually need to be straight up told things, they don’t really understand social cues from women as much as other women understand them. I would just have a straight up conversation with him about this because it’s clearly upsetting you as you’re comparing yourself to his ex.
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you have a right to feel jealous. he gave her a thoughtful gift and he's planning on giving you gift cards! for me personally i would be a little hurt, he took time for his ex's gift and then wants to take the lazy way out on yours. maybe he wants to surprise you? telling you he's getting gift cards but then he gets you something nice. i really don't know. either way you should talk to him about it. tell him that your jealous or hurt or whatever. maybe he can make you feel better or help you not feel jealous.
his ex shouldn't be involved in his life at all
also you're too young for a boyfriend
you should be dating, playing the field. not tied down, at your age
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