Why do you men break our hearts?

[Anonymous]

We haven't done a thing to hurt you so why hurt us? It's cruel of you to break our hearts. You live and move on with your life without trying to glue the broken pieces together...

[udolipixie]

Why do you men break our hearts? We haven't done a thing to hurt you so why hurt us?

Egh more like why do some guys break your heart as it's off to say "you men" as likely there are quite a few guys that haven't had a chance to break a heart and way off to say "our" as I haven't been heartbroken by a guy.

As for why do some guys break your heart probably because they can or they weren't aware as in my experiences often times when a gal gets her heartbroken the guy doesn't know she was emotionally invested in him as I find guys tend to be self-centered especially in regards to gals.

[xHoneyxBeex]

One man breaks your heart and you're blaming all men? Not cool.

All men are not the same, you just chose a jerk.

[Anonymous]

cold heartless bastards.

they think with their "other head" half the time.

[Bloogoo]

some- but definitely not all...

[ThatBritishLad]

The growth on my back? :O

... Ahh, I get it... See, I thought... With the head, but you... With the penis and... Yeah...

[Opinion Owner]

lol

[jmr2191]

These kinds of questions drive me nuts for a few reasons:

1. Girls are just as guilty as guys.

2. Girls tend to go for jerks (not necessarily saying you do) and those guys will break your heart.

3. Generalizations are somewhat offensive.

If you take this as a direct insult toward you or all females, I apologize. What I'm saying is the truth as I experience and via naturalistic observation. That's all I have to say

[Asker]

What if I say I'm taking about nice guys? It happens. They're jerks deep down

[ThatBritishLad]

Now that's just rude.

[jmr2191]

QA, what I am stating is purely via my own experience and naturalistic observation. There's a reason I put what I did in parentheses on point two. Emotions can be difficult to control and love can make us blind. I know you feel hurt and I've felt the same with girls, so I feel your pain. I self-reflect on a regular basis. Give it a shot yourself and see if you can figure anything out. Best of luck to you and keep your head up :)

[jmr2191]

Also, nice guys wouldn't hurt you. Hurting you isn't a good thing- at least in my book.

[Asker]

I only said what I said to see your reaction regarding nice guys :p

[jmr2191]

Okay then: nice guys have strong morals and values (especially when it comes to their girlfriends), they're the reason chivalry is far from dead and not only is his girlfriend his partner, she's his best friend :)

[bdoran24]

girl break mens hearts too, you do have to try to glue the broken pieces but if they keep breaking then something thing is not right, and you have to go your own ways.

[shibby13]

regardless of popular belief men don't just break hearts for no reason, most of the time it boils down to were not happy. wouldn't it be worse to drag something on just for the fear of hurting someone elses feelings? would you stay in a relationship that your not happy in anymore?

[Asker]

No but it's not fair to hurt us when were so genuinely nice

[shibby13]

sometimes we do that because we don't want to lead girls on to believe things can be fixed. other times it's to force you to move on. for me it's always harder to be broken up with for sheer incompatibility than it is for something I did or something she did to me.

[Anonymous]

My heart goes out to you as you've obviously been hurt by someone. Rest assured, however, that it's not just we men who break hearts. Not by a long shot.

[repetron]

Lol, can't say I've ever broken a girls heart, their usually the ones breaking mine.

[Anonymous]

We aren't allowed to give up that secret or headquarters will shoot us.

Bro's before Ho's

[Asker]

Lol cool

[Vandal]

It's part of our conspiracy against you, I'm afraid.

[Anonymous]

Title rephrase: Why did the men I've been with break my heart.

[Anonymous]

glue them to break them again later? that's for sick people.

[Anonymous]

To see the expression on your face - why else?

[Bloogoo]

Don't be a d*ck

[Opinion Owner]

The question is retarded - it deserves a mocking answer.

[ThatBritishLad]

I think Anonymous wins here :P

[sovetskii13]

Women break men's hearts too.

[Anonymous]

Because guys are jerks