My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend keep arguing, should I leave?

[Anonymous]

She been texting him and calling him. he rarely say something about it. he said she was nothing but a sex to him. This has been going on contiuously. He was talking about filing a harassment report against her. I talked to him about it but I think he did it because I was there. It seem fake because he's not taking the report serious. I seen the messages. His ex girlfrend said "you talk To a million girls but you gonna call yourself disrespecting me" my boyfriend replied " don't worry about what I'm doing. " he told me he just sex with her at the back of his car and that's it. He even said he wasn't gonna text her anymore. He texted her and when she called he answered saying "hello". I'm like what the ? So he have me to call her and I called restricted. Out of this whole ordeal he only told me twice she was bothering him. He stay on Facebook more than ever. him and his ex argue constantly. that harassment was filed in August nothing has changed. So I'm thinking he did this to throw me off. we even got a copy of the order but for some reason only he can see it. this has been going on constantly. He even told me she change her number constantly to harass him. I later found out she change her phone number all the time just to change it. He be telling her he don't want her but never do anything to get rid of her. he even called her while they was arguing. should I leave? Even on twiiter after 2 months not being on, he tweeted about her because she always see his page. He hasn't been on since. I live with him and he say she nothing but a sex to him but why can't go further to get rid of her? He even had a lock code

[lotuskai]

I would tell him he needs to decide rather he wants this girl to still be in his life or not for real. If he wanted her to stop calling/ texting he should have just ignored her after he filed the report. Like didn't answer the calls or anything. Sounds like he likes drama. Your gonna have to sit down with him and tell him exactly how YOU feel about the situation. I don't understand how he is disrespecting her when she's not even in the picture. He is your man now let that be known. Don't sit idle tell him to make a decision or to get the step'n. You might also have to check that girl too, just saying.

[Asker]

I am so tired of talking about his ex with him. This been going on since we started dating. I'm guessing she was already in the picture. she know about me but he don't bring me up and he know where she stay at but won't tell me. Before she got her number changed I couldn't get her phone number. He reads her messages but most of the time don't reply.

[Asker]

He don't ignore his ex all the time. She called at 3am and he answered.

[lotuskai]

Then he sounds like he his playing games. You are his lady, he should have told the girl you don't want him talking to her and dropped her. It's a red flag that he is sitting on all this info and isn't telling you zip. You might have to start weighing the pro's and con's of staying in a relationship with him. If he isn't putting you first and treating you right now, when will he? Think it out first then proceed.

[Asker]

Exactly smh

[QueenBeatris]

he says she is nothing but sex to him? when ..now? it sounds like he is involved with her and she is pissed that he won't leave you for her,u are sharing this douche bag, who in the hell acts like she is unless there's something else going on..i would leave him, too much drama and he obviously is not ready to let her go.

[aly-marie]

It definitely seems like it's time to move on. Since you live together you may want try an ultimatum first (stop contacting her or you're leaving), but I don't feel he'd be honest about that anyway. He doesn't seem to be taking your feelings into consideration at all, and you deserve better.

[Asker]

he took me to an even today and people looked at me as if I was stupid

[jamesma87]

If he has respect for you and your relationship then he would have stopped talking with this girl. I would think this is one of those situations where it is totally reasonable to ask someone to stop hanging out with their ex

[Asker]

I'm tired but he blocked her but I late found out he always block her and still talk to her

[Passion_Prevails]

I'd leave him, if I had a girlfriend who continued to talk and argue with her ex it'd make me believe she still has unresolved feelings for him and eventually if things get bumpy between us, she'd likely run to him...

[Brelee625]

Leave him. My boyfriend treats me like I'm the most important woman in the world. Your man should make you the most important woman not his ex. It doesn't matter if he isn't replying to the texts or not. Tell him to change his number so he can't deal with his ex.

[Silvaria]

He is addicted to her drama. Unless you like drama also, move on. There are better guys out there.