Being YOU disrespected her like you have, sweetie, she is right: "MOVE ON." She, in essence, will never, and CAN NEVER, EVER trust you again, and even if you were to go back together tomorrow, she will never be able to have that trust in you that is needed to hold a good, sturdy relationship together. I am sorry to be the bearer of bad news." By you even wanting time away because you say you "were unhappy," broke her heart because apparently, you were not finding any happiness with this wonderful girl. And even though she gave her "trust, her body, her love," she feels now--and may always---that YOU, in turn, gave her "nothing." Learn from your mistakes for future relationships...
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been there heard that returned the tshirt. I was engaged to my best friend whom I trusted more than anyone, including myself. well he took that trust, held it, kept it safe, then broke it like glass. I didn't think I could ever recover, especially when two weeks later he apologized profusely and begged me to give him another chance. I refused. things were tense for a while, but we've done a lot of discussing about it and now 4yrs later we are good friends again. but the key thing was we both wanted to remain friends; we knew not to attempt another relationship. so just hope maybe she'll cool off and want to reconnect, but it will ONLY be as friends.
Agree with Paris 100%. You will just have to learn from your mistakes.
It doesn't matter how much you regret it or how bad you feel.
I would be very hurt and to be frank I would also be completely done with you. Not only did you betray her trust, but you did it TWICE. She gave you a second chance and you did it again. Stop tormenting her and playing games. Leave the poor girl alone and let her get on with her life. Please.
I'm sorry to be harsh, but put yourself in her shoes. Even if she did let you back in, it will never be the same. And nobody needs to be in that type of relationship.
You made a bad choice, you have to deal with the consequences now. All you can do is learn from your mistakes and don't let it happen again bud. Don't obsess over her now just move on, you'll drive yourself crazy if you don't just let it go.
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I'm really sorry..I know I shouldn't say sorry because you broke her heart and trust but I know how you feeling right now.it not easy and it hurts but she's moved on love,even if she hasn't she doesn't want anything to do with you..she defiantly still cares for you in a way..she always will because you were her first at everything and that always means something but she doesn't want anything to do with you..so I think it's better if you respect her wish because after all that's the least you could do.i'm really sorry.
If you really care about this girl, give her the space to let her move on.
At this point being with you will do her more harm than good, do you want her to live with low self esteem and suspicion?
Glad you realize your errors, but that does not undo themImagine the situation in reverse, wouldn't you fell and do the same as she did?
I think the only way you can make it up to her is by leaving her alone. You're the one who messed up, not her. Why should she suffer more because of you? If you love her, you'll let her go.
Sorry if I was a bit harsh.all you can do is tell her how you feel maybe right a letter to her or something but that's all you can do... the more you try the further you will push her away...if you really loved her why did you kiss another girl the day you said you just wanted to take a little break? I don't know that would really hurt me too...
She told you . . . the trust is gone and there isn't anything left. That means that her heart will not allow her to love you and care for you like a Girlfriend should. I think she's pretty serious about her intentions. Chalk it up as a lesson learned and don't make the same mistake again when the next special girl comes along. It's over here.
no you lost her, she doesn't to be treated like this
you don't deserve her, she will never ever trust you 100% again
learn from it.Do your thing. Let her do hers. Move on.
Not much you can do. Time to move on.
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