Questions: Break Up & Divorce

I would like to know, in your honest opinion, what constitutes as PHYSICAL cheating, not emotional cheating, just plain physical cheating.

What I mean by this is, if you were in a relationship and you or your significant other decided to cheat, what is it that you have to physical do for it to be considered cheating? Or what is it that your boyfriend/girlfriend does that you would say, you cheated on me, we're done.

Some people have told me that it isn't cheating unless you have sex with another person. Others have told me that the second you touch another person it's considered cheating.

Again, I mean physical cheating, not emotional cheating. (Emotional cheating is more so being really flirty with another person to where you start developing feelings for this other person even when you're in a relationship)

So, do you consider it cheating as soon as they hold hands? Kiss? Only have sex? Or is it something else?

I don't want to repeat myself, but I'm just trying to make my meaning as clear as possible. Do you think it's cheating the second they hold hands? Or is holding hands okay, but as soon as they kiss THAT'S when it's considered cheating? Or do you only think it's cheating when they have sex?

I'm just curious to know what everyone thinks.

If your ex gave you a perfume when you were together, do you still use that perfume?