My step cousin? kissed me!! help!

[Anonymous]

Okay,so my mom and dad got divorced about two years ago. Both of my parents got remarried with in a year after their divorce. I stayed with my dad for a while now I'm with my mom. Her new husband is grate. His parents also got divorced and remarried. His step mom had a daughter and her kids are around my age. Her son Matthew and I became best friends . he's like blood to me . We goof around and stuff and we always stay the night at each others houses. The other day we were just hanging out and slap boxing and he pushed me down and I i was just laying in the floor cracking up . When I got up I laid on the couch and he bent down and full on kissed me on the mouth. It wasn't just a peck it was a full on kiss. so I got up and grabbed my back pack ,got in my car and left. I haven't talked him since because I don't know what to say to him.what should I do? I mean I love him but not like that I don't think cause well he's my step dads step nephew. So what should I do ? What do I say to him? Is it wrong for him to do that ?

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+1 y

I just read this and by goof around I mean we play fight and stuff.

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+1 y

Why would he kiss me? What are some reasoning for his "crush"?

[Betwyn]

You see him as a cousin who is cool/fun

He see's you as a pretty girl who gives him the time of day...

more then the time of day.. a lot...

He has a crush on you..

If he wasn't your step-step cousin... would you be interested?

If no, you need to tell him that you think/feel for him as a cousin.

If yes, you need to figure out how you really feel.. and maybe talk to your mother, if you two have a good relationship and she isn't the freak out kind.

[Anonymous]

I don't think I would disown him or anything. Maybe call him and tell him you think you two should talk. Have a talk with him and let him know how you feel what you said here how you feel about him. He's got a serious crush on you but it's not the end. When I was little I had a crush on a blood cousin. I don't think it's that unusual.

[Asker]

He insnt blood that's why he thinks its OK though

[Opinion Owner]

True. It sounds like you've been put between a rock and a hard spot. You're not obligated to be around him or anything other than maybe family get together's, maybe. Things really depend on how you feel and if and when you're prepared to face or address it.

[phonezoo]

Biologically, it's OK, you're not blood...however this is more of a ethical question you need to ask yourself. Should you date your step cousin

[Asker]

I mean I see him as blood.

[phonezoo]

It doesn't matter, he's not blood. Biologically, you CAN date him

[phonezoo]

Because he finds you attractive and you hang out. He thought, "heck, why not, she's not blood"

[Asker]

I don't think you're understanding lol I don't see him like that . Why do you think he sees me like thag ?

[Asker]

Dang well I feel bad

[phonezoo]

If you see him as a different kind of love you just have to tell him that you don't feel the same and that you may have to stop hanging out for a bit until he moves on, or you have...sometimes time apart, is the best solution.

[Asker]

Its kinda hard to avoid him even when I say I wanna be alone he never leaves . Iv just bren avoiding answering the phone and staying at my friends house sho he can't find me .

[phonezoo]

You have to be honest with him, it'll hurt but at least he'll know how you feel