Polls: Break Up & Divorce

My girlfriend of 4 years, FOUR FUCKING YEARS, cheated on me, I walked in on them 2 days ago and I've been trying to come up with a way to get revenge ever since. She broke my heart, it wasn't the first time either, she admitted she's been lying for the last year. I was gunna marry this girl, I gave her so much! I don't understand how she could do this to me and I want revenge, cheating is not okay and must be punished. We're still living together (in separate rooms of the house) for the moment as neither of us have anywhere to go but I am desperately trying to get out of the house.

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When is it the worse time to dump him or her. Do women find it easier to dump a person on a monthly (period).
Or when you have lost your job or death, so on
Do you keep a person on a good mood before giving them bad news or dump them.

Leaving likes and comments, and she tells you to get lost.
Would you stop spying or still carry on discreetly?

So here is the situation. I have a best friend, Against my advice he married one of those feminist types. Anyway, a year into their marriage they choose to try for a baby. She wants a daughter apparently. He does not care as long as its healthy. Later in the pregnancy she finds out that she is having a boy. She goes behind his back and without telling him, she has an abortion. Later she tells him that she miscarried. When the medical bills come in, he discovers the truth, confronts her, and she said that it was her body, her choice, and she didn't want to bring another nasty disgusting boy into existence. He comes to me devastated, I chose to put him in contact with my lawyer, and paid for his retainer. He divorced his wife.. Thankfully they were together just over a year so she is entitled to nothing, The divorce happened, and she is out on the streets. Both he and i have been receiving death threats from her family and friends because of the divorce.

In this situation i personally believe she was the asshole.. She chose to kill his child behind his back, and lie about it.. Yes her body her choice.. But on that same token they're married and she should have at least had the balls to have a conversation with him.

What do you think GAG

I want to see how many people were able to stay on a level of friendship with an ex, versus those who could not.

"Ladies, we have been making some serious progress when it comes to income over the last few decades, but with great paychecks come great responsibilities! If you are a high earning woman considering divorce, don’t be surprised if your soon-to-be ex asks for alimony (also known as “spousal support”)"

www.wife.org/will-pay-alimony-ex-husband.htm

I thought their story was over. She was blocked by him and he vanished for several years.

He’s back and has apologised to her and told her he still has feelings. M

He also sent her a friend request which she accepted.

Hi! I've been applying it my whole life and it Works like a charm to get people back (for me)
But, I'd like to know some success stories, did you got people back? Did you and they moved on?

I'm curious about this.

Yes, according to a "coach" he said that from 5 to 7 days of No Contact is enough, because the other person might "fall in love" with someone else. To me it doesn't make sense at all.

If a person falls in love in 7 days after breaking up with you it can only mean 2 things.
1. They are using that relationship as a rebound to "get over" you or to make you jealous.
2. They didn't loved you after all.

Anyway, Thanks for Reading!

Met this girl (24) online who moved to my city 2 years ago for work and things moved fast. One 3 hour dinner at a restaurant & I got the impression that she was a complete "goody two shoes." We had so many values in common... so I thought :/
2nd date she invited me over and we slept together, which caught me off guard. She initiated everything, but I went with it b/c it felt special. I didn't finish and she said "I'm sorry I'm not very good at this" which got me thinking she had not been with many people.
2 wks later we were in a relationship & the only thing I knew about her past was her one and only 9 month relationship & some dating that didn't work out. A week later at 11:30pm she gets a missed call & text from a guy saying "Hey, I miss you." She explained it was a guy she dated earlier in the year. No big deal she didn't even reply.

A week ago and a text form her ex for a valid reason created another awkward situation, which led to me asking dangerous questions. How old she was when she lost her virginity & how many guys she had slept with? I didn't think I would get unsavory answers, but I did.

She lost her V at 20/21 (not a big deal), told me I was the 8th guy she had slept with & the last guy was 4/5 months before me. With her only being 24 & a 9 month relationship in there I did the math. From the time she broke up with her ex there was an 18 month period where she slept with 6 guys. Very unsavory info, but it gets worse... 2 of them were one night stands where she invited the guys over to her apmt the very first time, the other 4 she slept with after only 2-4 dates and one turned into a friends with benefits situation for 2 weeks :/

We have already BOTH fallen for each other hard and I'm devastated. She feels AWFUL, said she was lonely & admits the mistakes & how stupid she was. I feel like she was only after sex, had no respect for herself, didn't learn from the mistakes & am having a hard time seeing her as the same person I thought she was.

Divorce rape is basically raping a man financially and send him down to poverty long term through legal processes with the family court involved into your private lives.
While typically men commited sexual assault (rape) on women, women typically commit divorce rape (legal financial robbery) on men.

Any ideas how to not fall for that trap? 😅

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