While typically men commited sexual assault (rape) on women, women typically commit divorce rape (legal financial robbery) on men.
Any ideas how to not fall for that trap? 😅
ur funny... that's a very negative view of females and not fair to start with.
I know multiple females who.. forgoe the $ when their husbands cheated and left for another women, for the sake of keeping family unity. As well, sometimes the women are the financial losers
In general, two together are more weathy and stronger... divide that up, both take a big hit.
Protections: If there is disparity starting out, then prenup which ensures there is some time period where he/she isn't gonna get taken if it sours fast. Also, select a quality woman who has mothering instincts and traditional values, better off.
Reality is... they are a team and stuff gets divided up, kids must be cared for and compensated. It may look like the man is being taken, and maybe he is. Not always.
They work 24x7 a lot of times.
The only answer that mattered is A. Just don't even bother to every marry or sign anything, sign any legal document. And two. Watch out for that common law marriage laws technicality bullshit. That can fuck over someone that is unsuspecting of it. There's always pre-nips but good luck with that one too. Marriage is really meant for people that are risk takers and want to start a family and have offspring the way I look at it. Good luck with those big life changing decisions and risks too for those that decide to make those choices because there is always that chance and possibility that the outcome will turn out to be undesirable, unacceptable and unfavorable.
i want a two sided prenup and we never merge finances. we can open a joint bank account together that he and i will contribute to our lives together (groceries, rent, taxes) and still maintain our separate accounts. honestly i wouldn't even legally get married unless totally necessary -id have the wedding ceremony but never legally sign the document mostly because i have amazing credit and 0 debt. i don't want to take on someone else's
My goodness! You are truly a prize and an idol to look up to! I say this because for women it does seem rather unusual if you ask me. I too want to get an amazing credit score, have 0 debts and invest money into companies.
I currently have 0 debts and I will always stay this way, so that's something. Then I'll have to raise my credit score and when I start making some real cash, I'd like to invest.
Women, who got their finances together and will never shatter it are extremely attractive to me! For me, they think like us - or at least like me :)
Marry someone you trust, and have a prenup if you want.
Then ask her why does it bother her so much
Even I want to write down in my marriage contract that my man shall not have another wife. Doesn't mean that I think he's gonna marry someone else. But I will do it anyway, just in case.
Tell her if she's trustworthy enough she doesn't have to worry about it.
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To those saying marry someone you trust, that's really silly advice. If they knew they couldn't trust them, THEY WOULDN'T MARRY THEM.
The problem is you can't know what someone is going to do 1 year, 5 years or 10 years later. People change. They fall out of love, they meet someone else, they become selfish and lose their morals. They sometimes become selfish cunts. And considering how hi the divorce rate is, and the fact that women file 85% of those divorces, I think it's clear that a LOT of them turn into selfish cunts.
The answer to the question is A.
just put all your money into assets registered under a corporation with a trusted family member at the helm... I know a guy who did that he has a net worth of about £5M but 60% is listed as corporate assets so in a divorce only his watches, jewellery, his cars and the house are affected directly
There are options.
1. Be a MGTOW monk.
2. Put all of your assets into a trust, so that you do not own anything directly. Do not tell her. Let it be a surprise when she tries to use the Family Court to steal eveything that you own.
3. Have the bitch Epsteined if/when she files for divorce.
2. Is that like creating a secondary identity, that is not related to you and assign properties on that secondary identity? How does that work? Or did you mean assign ownership of properties to a trusted friend?
3. Epsteined? The urban dictionary explains it as follows: (To be killed by the government and have it framed as a suicide)
I assume you meant hiring a hitman to exterminate her and make it look like an accident/suicide attempt.
If you are that concerned about it then get a prenuptial agreement drawn up by a legal advisor and have her sign it. End of problem, no need for drama.
Pre-nuptual agreement, or make sure EVERYTHING is in YOUR NAME ONLY. Don't let her be a stay at home mom, make she has a job so she's making her own money. This way it's easier to take what you brought to the table and she takes what she brought>
Be broke or never marry. And no, prenups are no guaranty of anything - they get set aside in whole or in part frequently.
Hide your assets in smart ways and never get married.
Marry someone you trust?
Dad had the best advice I heard.. He said " dont marry for love marry for money, i married for love and look how that turned out"
You don’t get married
The safest way is never to marry.
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