Polls: Break Up & Divorce

Hi guys
So my and my partner has been together for years and now we have a baby
I gave birth over a month ago to our daughter

Anyway so I have this friend
she's been in multiple relationships
But she recently broke up with her ex of 3 years
And now she's hooking up with different guys etc
When i gave birth, she came to visit the hospital and gave me chocolates and flowers

But thing is… now she's pregnant?
She was so happy to tell me

She said she's going to keep the baby even when the guy she hooked up with blocked her and disappeared

And the guy that she hooked up with.. is the same nationality as my partner

The thing is.. why did she suddenly want to get pregnant after I gave birth?
Why didn't she get pregnant with her ex when they were together for 3 years?
Is she copying me?

My ex and I were in a 4.5 year relationship before he ended it about 7 months ago now. His mom and I, while I was with her son, didn't have the best relationship due to external factors like my family's stance on the union and other things since it was an interracial relationship. After the split, she became kind towards me and helped me emotionally/mentally as a mother figure, basically treating me drastically differently than before. She even told me the day after the breakup that she believes her son needs to mature during this time to be ready for marriage with me since we were planning on getting engaged this upcoming year. That obviously should've been kept to herself since I was in a vulnerable place and assumed that he told her that, which led to delayed healing.

Since then, I have met up with my ex's parents a couple of times just because they wanted to see me, and they have treated me with tremendous respect and kindness. They invited me to their home to help paint furniture, and during that time, the mom kept referring to me as daughter-in-law even though my ex and I hadn't spoken to each other in months. We also talked about my healing during that time, and she supported my journey. Her son's birthday was in October, and she asked if I wished him a happy birthday. I said no since he told me that he wasn't comfortable with me communicating with him at the beginning of the breakup. My birthday was in December, and she didn't wish me a happy birthday, but today, she wished me a happy holiday season and asked if I was dating anyone. I didn't respond to her question and was taken aback by it since there was no reason for her to ask that. I have removed him and that whole family from my social medias, so maybe that's part of the reason why? Do you think my ex is asking her to find out on his behalf? Why wouldn't he just message me to find out?

Broken up or divorced during the holidays?

My brother broke up with his first girlfriend after finding her in bed with her ex again. On new years day and she regularly swore they never talked.

Again, not meant to be taken seriously. But after my latest take about exes/zodiacs, I’m trying to see something here. I was probably the most physically hurt by a Capricorn and Aries. However, emotionally, I have noticed the heartbreakers tend to end up being the air signs AQUARIUS, GEMINI, LIBRA, and also CANCER and SAGITTARIUS. Anyone else experience this? If you’re not sure of the person’s zodiac sign, tell me their birth month or google it.

My experience-

-Cancers usually have the looks and personality. They could truly be the whole package if they allowed themselves to be. But they seem to fear commitment and I don't know why because they don’t seem like the cheating type. Maybe they just fear getting hurt so they hurt you first.

-Sagittarius will show you in so many ways that they want you. But the problem is they never only want you. You tend to be just one of the people they are after. And if you confront them about it, they will go to the lowest of lows and say the meanest things (or simply shun/ignore/avoid you) just to get out of looking like a player.

-Gemini will be all for you. But they let their insecurities get the best of them. So once you’re ready to give things a go, then suddenly they forgot they wanted to be more than friends.

-Libras are hard to understand. Just like Gemini they are all for you. Just like Sagittarius they show you they want you. Just like Cancer they have the looks and personality. But one day they’re just suddenly not interested for long. I think they miss flirting with others too much and just choose not to commit for the timebeing.

-Aquarius only want company from certain people at certain times. One minute they’re interested and the next they forget to show they still care. They want to commit but question when they should. It will drive you to leave them and then you both end up hurt from the lack of communication and not sharing one another’s love language. #FeelFreeToList

A promise no matter how big or small is still a promise and if it’s broken it can definitely cause pain or feelings of betrayal. Have you ever broken a promise or had a S. O. broke their promise on you? How did you deal with it?

Me and my partner just broke up
We had a really big bad break up after an argument
We have a 6 month old baby

It sucks because its near Christmas

Anyway he asked if we could do a family photo with santa in those shopping centers

Why does he still want to do a family Christmas photo?
When we just broke up

My husband and I are divorcing after 5 years. 10 years together total. We have a 2 year old together and he doesn’t respect or value our marriage. He has been talking about divorce for a long time now and always try’s to reconcile as I do as well. I thought we were trying to fix things until he asked me for a divorce again. And I found out after he asked for a divorce (2 months prior) he messaged a coworker of mine behind my back flirting and trying to get a quickie out of her. At the time I was in Miami for 3 days having a procedure. When I came back this past October we were trying to get pregnant. Month later he wants a divorce. I also found out he downloaded dating apps on his phone during our marriage. So I’m so hurt that he is telling me now that he feels no connection etc, and is emotionally disconnected. And has been. But why waste my time these past 2 years.. if he could have it in him to get on dating apps and try to have sex with my coworker why did he continue a marriage he had no intention on taking seriously? Even after everything he did I am so hurt and depressed and can’t seem to process even the idea of letting go. Part of me wants to move back home to another state near my family with my toddler (which he agreed to me doing as long as he can have our son in the summers). I just can’t seem to let go, I feel like a failure, I’m still in love, and I’m so scared to just start over again. We moved to Florida away from everyone, built a home, started a life.

My ex and I broke up after a big argument
He broke down and cried

Then
He keeps saying:
I cheated on him (which i never have…..)
he's depressed coz of me
He doesn't want me
He doesn't love me
He will never marry me
He will never f@k me again
Im disgusting that I fkd around etc
He doesn't care

And he keeps calling me on different numbers saying the same things above

Then his last call he kept saying he's going to go out this weekend and see someone else

Wtf is his problem?

They won't ever see it till its way to late and they are hurt deeply again.

My sister has terrible luck with dating yet when she finds someone terrible and every one agrees and says they are awful.

She just clings harder to them.

Tried this every way I can to help but always just have to let her make her own mistakes!