She misses your presence
She still likes you to some extent
Both of the above
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When an ex reaches out after ending things, it’s usually not about getting back together.
It’s about something unresolved in them, curiosity, loneliness, guilt, or wanting reassurance that you’re still there.
Breakups don’t switch feelings off instantly.
People miss the attention, the routine, or the comfort, even if they don’t want the relationship anymore.
If she wanted to rebuild something real, her actions would be consistent, not occasional messages.
If she just wants emotional access, the contact will stay vague and confusing.
The reason matters less than what you allow.
You get to decide whether her messages are good for your peace or not.
Here is a novel idea. Actually talk to her.
About what? She’s an ex now
I had my ex reach put a few months after she broke things off. I probably didn't respond in the best way. No idea what she was thinking
She doesn't want you, but she's bored and wants attention. Block her and move on.
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Probably feels guilty.
For blindsiding?
Have you felt guilty for breaking up before? If so how long did it last and did you keep in contact with them?
How did it go bad?
And did you ever blindside them?
So do you think no contact is better?
Which one is normally the one of them who wants more?
Why didn't you block her?
I can’t get myself to do it. And it seems immature.
Hasn't found anyone better, yet
She needs attention.
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