I wish that was the case for me. I'm nice to girls and treat them extra special and girls go from being super interested romantically to wanting to be just friends.
There's a difference between being too nice and subduing your personallity in servitude to someone, if being too nice were really a thing no gal would deal with me lol
Don't really subdue my personality for anyone unless I'm madly in love with them. I used to but I stand up for myself now. Maybe I'm dating girls who don't appreciate a good guy and are only attracted to assholes? Then they complain about it yet love them. I'm probably just having bad luck lately.
It's just bad luck, and if you're really into a girl, all the more reason not to hide yourself, people appreciate honesty, even if it seems otherwise... No one is attracted to assholes, but people are attracted to strong personalities, which assholes often have... girls appreciate nice guys, more then anything else, but there has to be other stuff there too... Some people just don't work... and it comes to interests, beliefs, morals, activity levels, I mean everything... but being too nice has never been a problem in and of itself...
Really good points. It just seems like it's major Catch-22 though with girls. Thing is if you really like someone, you need them and are weak for them. Girls want to be needed and wanted by a guy. Yet that need and want to some girls is perceived as neediness and weakness and they want a "man" and therefore that's unattractive. Thing is I am a "man" but I'm affected by feelings for people like every other human being. It seems that some girls want some guy who dosent care if they're in his life or not. And I don't get it.
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In most cases, it's number 2.
The friend zone is real but you can get out of it.
Or its cause your too nice to the girl.
Nope not true a guy being too nice doesn't exist to the decent girls
I wish that was the case for me. I'm nice to girls and treat them extra special and girls go from being super interested romantically to wanting to be just friends.
There's a difference between being too nice and subduing your personallity in servitude to someone, if being too nice were really a thing no gal would deal with me lol
Don't really subdue my personality for anyone unless I'm madly in love with them. I used to but I stand up for myself now. Maybe I'm dating girls who don't appreciate a good guy and are only attracted to assholes? Then they complain about it yet love them. I'm probably just having bad luck lately.
It's just bad luck, and if you're really into a girl, all the more reason not to hide yourself, people appreciate honesty, even if it seems otherwise...
No one is attracted to assholes, but people are attracted to strong personalities, which assholes often have... girls appreciate nice guys, more then anything else, but there has to be other stuff there too...
Some people just don't work... and it comes to interests, beliefs, morals, activity levels, I mean everything... but being too nice has never been a problem in and of itself...
Really good points. It just seems like it's major Catch-22 though with girls. Thing is if you really like someone, you need them and are weak for them. Girls want to be needed and wanted by a guy. Yet that need and want to some girls is perceived as neediness and weakness and they want a "man" and therefore that's unattractive. Thing is I am a "man" but I'm affected by feelings for people like every other human being. It seems that some girls want some guy who dosent care if they're in his life or not. And I don't get it.
Ummm why do guys focus on one girl?
Did you say... NAAAAARNIAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA? <3 <3 <3
Nice take. It needed saying, indeed.
Your logic is flawed. Narnia is real
... Why are women so damn obsessed with this?
because they like plan Bs and guys that will always pine for them. The last thing they want is for these guys to wise up and ditch their asses
@Bob5555 true!!!
nice mytake