Why Women Play Hard to Get, Even if you Hate it (Page 4)

[Shay1994]

I think women want to be sure that the man who's trying to court them are genuine and actually want to be in a relationship.

[Shyguy_1988]

I know why women play hard to get but some play impossible to get, XD. Also it seems a lot of women don't mind just having causal sex as well, younger girls anyway who say they don't have time for relationships.

[tyber1]

You just want men to take all the risks so you don't have to take any of them. You are a coward.

[tyber1]

Let me be clear about something. Men aren't the only people who manipulate. A guy isn't typically gonna put a ton of effort into a girl who is playing games because a lot of us have had our hearts broken and time wasted. You make it sound like men are so evil and women just have it so bad because men are evil but in reality both sides get shat on and it isn't a good reason to treat everyone of the opposite sex like they're evil too.

[apexalpha]

I will stalk you and send you secret love letters for 6 months try to get your number for 5 months date you and pay for you for 7 months after all of that will you shower me with love?
Sounds risky to me odds of failure to investment ratio!

[apexalpha]

Unless you are Adriana Limas twin sister you are #NotWorthIt
#RealityCheck

[kimichi120]

hilarious. but to me, its a fail LOL. still pretty funny to me. I've been dating my boyfriend 2 years and if he ever asks to shower with me, imma shut him down so fast

[Byakuyarko]

I like women who play hard to get... They are firm in what they want and respect themselves. What I dislike are hypocrites... And sadly, many chicks who play hard to get are doing just that... playing... That's a huge turn off.

[PT1911]

So...

You prefer guy who has his life in order and seeks out what he wants...

Well, good luck finding that in our generation, we're a rare breed.

*goes back to my apartment, sips on whiskey and contemplates asking a girl out or not*

[Polocrew]

Lol never knew any of my friends or any other guy (including mee) that's in "chasing", maybe it's just internet or people on here but I won't even look at the same chick again if she try playing games like that lol

[Anonymous]

Then who pass? The stalker who can't take a hint?

Why do you single out "losers"? Most of these "losers" probably assume that you're not interested and respect women too much to act obsessive. Either that or they have no idea that you even exist.

[myTake Owner]

Apparently you didn't get that part because you've never been through the situation

[Opinion Owner]

As a matter of fact I have, and even if I didn't my argument is still valid:

When singling out "losers" or as I call it "people who give up", who will persist? What kind of man will continue to pursue a woman who shows no sign of appreciation whatsoever?

Here is my own answers:

The kind of man who can't comprehend a "no" at all, playing your game with the assumption that no matter how you reject them, you're still playing hard to get. Good luck dumping that guy or explaining him the concept of "needing space".

The dogged nice guy, the person that become so obsessed with you that almost any sign of appreciation is considered a reward. From a psychological point of view, he's vulnerable to the Stockholm syndrome.

One of your points was: "Men who take advantage of a woman's kindness", if the dogged nice guy slip through your filter disguised as willing to commit (or rather submit), are you going to take advantage of him?

[FakeName123]

Either you want to be with a certain someone or you don't. If you have to play games, something is seriously wrong with you.

[bustas]

If she play this game i ll just simply approach other woman
seriously. The earth had massive amount of attractive women

[Anonymous]

Losers?
Give up?
Womens' kindness?

LOL. Women are truly disgusting. Fuck relationships

[kelaynak]

+++++++++++

[ConsultantIsBack]

Go ahead and play hard to get. Just don't come crying when you're alone on weekends.

And what @Qoolipbite said

[Marshmellowking]

What if... just hear me out... Some women are actually hard to get

[Hannah591]

Some good points that I've actually experienced myself.

[dudeman]

if a women plays hard to get im over it immediately. what kind of dumb bitch plays games. if you like me then like me dont make me jump through hoops.

[AlwaysBelieving]

Pleasantly surprised by this.

Then there are some guys (me) that are getting comfortable in who they are, what they want, and care little of what people think.

[james_mark]

Playing hard is a huge turn off. He will move on quickly if you do that.

[babu_001]

And she will end up dildoing herself.

[Anonymous]

It's called a shit-test gentlemen. Just pass it and move on.

[Anonymous]

but when guys do this he either not interested or a dick.

[myTake Owner]

Some guys do play hard to get, & a girl will chase, but Guys generally approach, girls generally don't. Especially since they more than likely have no reason and is just doing it to mess with your head... like I said feel free to play hard to get, because I already know that there are guys who feel entitled to do everything woman do. .. mananist

[theguanaco]

Well that's too bad cause maybe something could of happened.