I initiate all the time with guys I like. If anything, a lot of girls don't initiate because they're really insecure and afraid of rejection/what the guy will think etc.
Lmao guys get turned down all the time but you get rejected by one guy and that's proof that you shouldn't ever initiate? If one guy keeps turning you down, focus your efforts on a different one. You're not entitled to his attention.
well, if you initiated and he turned you down (multiple times if that), then i guess it would be in your best interest t stop since he's not interested. not saying you're creepy, but if a guy did this, a lot of girls would think it's stalker-ish and borderline sexual harassment.
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Girls don't initiate because of TOO MUCH ego.
I initiate all the time with guys I like. If anything, a lot of girls don't initiate because they're really insecure and afraid of rejection/what the guy will think etc.
You are an open girl.
Im kinda surprised a girl actually got that
Ya exactly! U got it exactly right!
Really? Really? Really? Should I keep on?
Yes... Why not initiate?
Well, I have initiated before to this guy multiple times and he ignores me. He pretends that he's not on this site but I know he is. I'm not dumb!
Lmao guys get turned down all the time but you get rejected by one guy and that's proof that you shouldn't ever initiate? If one guy keeps turning you down, focus your efforts on a different one. You're not entitled to his attention.
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well, if you initiated and he turned you down (multiple times if that), then i guess it would be in your best interest t stop since he's not interested. not saying you're creepy, but if a guy did this, a lot of girls would think it's stalker-ish and borderline sexual harassment.
See look at this right here lumos. It really does need to be said that girls shouldn't give up because of one or two rejections.
@Toad-1 she never even said anything about giving up?
'I have initiated before' indicates to me she's only done it this one time. Read between the lines here
@Toad-1 I think you're reading into it a bit too much. Just leave it alone.
Not sure why you're targeting me here... But ok
@Toad-1 how am I targeting you when I'm literally just responding to your comments.. ?
I just said what I wanted to say. You decided to start arguing with me lol.
Thank you for this!