I Cheated On My Boyfriend And Got Away With It (Page 3)
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"It all began when I was in senior high"
Yeahhh, I'm not gonna read this crap.
It's really shitty to have another sexual partner and keep it a secret.
Here's a list of why you suck:
(1.) You cheated on your boyfriend.
(2.) You are trying to JUSTIFY your cheating to us by writing a poetic short story.
Stop. The only weakness you have is your lack of care for people and lack of intelligence.
I'm pretty sure you wouldn't say that if @ justbanANNAz wrote this take.
@KENKONG why do you say that? Doesn't matter if it's her or someone else. A person who's an ass shall be called out.
I don't believe in Karma, that's crap, what I truly believe in is that nothing good you can expect from something wrong. What we do in our in our present will resonate in our future like a domino effect. If you are a cheater someday you'll be catch by your SO or you might just confess, either way the relationship probably will end or have zero credibility. I am in a long distance relationship and yes I have cheated on my long distance girlfriend showing my dick on cam, I have done that a few times a year, I am not proud of it and I am not putting no excuse. Cheating is a selfish act not a mistake, It's also the sign of a deficient relationship or the sign of many unresolved personal issues.
then why did you do it if you knew it was selfish?
Because sometimes I feel the relationship is just not working and is not like I have the money to go and visit her, all of that make me very insecure.
That still does not justify cheating. I hope he leaves you for your best friend and proposes to her in front of you
Were you expecting us to feel sorry for you?
thank you for this mytake and this piece of information and thank you for sharing your story with us. yes, it was wrong but you realized your mistake and that was the most important thing. It would break your boyfriends heart if you told him what you did, but you should tell him because if you dont you will never be lifted from the guilt. If you really love him you would tell him because you should be honest with him and shouldn't feel guilty your entire relationship.
good mytake
So what are you trumping to say exactly? Should we have extra people on the side for just sex and one person for a relationship? I'm not trying to offend you but please tell me that you have been through some trauma in your life or that you don't think straight because who would be okay with constant cheating becoming casual?
@Swano I think its not right to cheat on someone you love because if you truly love them they should be enough for you and you shouldn't desire someone else because if you are then you should tell your partner and break up before having sex or another relationship with someone else.
why would it be okay to want someone else when you have someone? they should be enough for you if you truly love and care for them
Right, so what's up with your original answer contradicting that?
I'm sorry I was commenting to the wrong person you are totally fine😎 my mistake
@Swano lol ok so is my answer alright then xD
But she didn't learn from it, she reffered to it as a week of bliss, she never admitted to her boyfriend that she cheated, for the five years she was with him, she out right stated she didn't regret it, only that she didn't put more thought into it. I don't think thats really learning ones lesson so much as making excuses to assauge her guilt by flowery rhetoric.
@hellionthesage lmao some people's moral compass ahold be sold for scrap. I actually burst out laughing reading her justifications at the start there. It's scary how screwy some folk in this world are
i don't know for sure but i do believe that when you cheat based on factors like infatuation or temptation, you never really loved your partner enough and it was weak on your side. and please don't think that you didn't told him to save him from pain, though i hope you learned from it.
I cheated one time too. I learned from my mistake and won't do it again. I don't need to type a take trying to justify doing something horrible because most people do it anyways. It's not something to be proud off in any way.
"The worst pain of all, however, was the pain of the heartbreak of never seeing Oliver again."
That's what men need to realise about most women cheating.
And let's be honnest. The single reason you didn't cheat again is because you did cross that Oliver.
Awww...poor you.
Not.
how did you not realize it until the end?
and how did your parents and friend just turn a blind eye for the entire week?
Honestly, you're the reason I'm depressed.
You're the reason I cry every night.
Know why? cuz no girls want to talk to me. No girl has ever spoken to me.
Why? Cuz I'm ugly.
No girl wants me as her friend, so I've never had female friends.
Then I read about girls (you), who have fun with their guyfriends, when they have a boyfriend themselves.
See the "guyfriend" in the previous sentence? That's the term, me and you could never be, cuz I'm ugly.
honestly, that guy is really lucky.
You girls are the reason I have mental breakdowns. You girls are the contents that add up to my crippling suicidal death wish.
You talk about how you are a compassionate person, but you aren't. If you were, you wouldn't have cheated on someone you apparently 'loved' and who loved you back. You won't even accept that it's your fault. You said it was beyond your control when it wasn't. You deserve to be single for the rest of your life. I don't care if you were only 17. You were old enough to know right from wrong at that age. Teens aren't stupid, they know it's wrong. So I think it's insulting to teenagers when you try to justify your age. If you ever do get in a relationship again, I hope you are cheated on and you catch him in the act.
But you know what they say
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No offense. I don't know with what confidence you can say you got away. You still have your life ahead of you. Thanks for sharing though.
What a pathetic lousy person. i hope you fall in love with someone and they cheat on you in your bed and you walk in on them, you would deserve it.
This is a textbook case of the narcissist's justification rationale in such a situation. Did you get this from a psychology journal? It's so technical and scientifically accurate. It's uncanny! If you aren't pulling our chain with this story I suggest you get a diagnosis.
I feel that's one of the worst cheaters---those who are too weak to resist basic temptation.
You had no excuse or sufficient reason to cheat (there is ONE, but you are nowhere near that situation).
I don't care for you or people that cheat in any way.
Wow. Your just pathetic. There was Matt waiting for his love and you were busy swallowing some other guys cum. oh but you enjoyed it so it's ok.
You dont sound real sorry about it so its likely that in some future relationship you will cheat again if circumstances allow it and justify it to yourself and others with a myriad of reasons. To sum it up for your take you were on holiday and it doesn't count as cheating if your in a different area code lol
All I got from this was you trying to justify cheating. I don't think you know the difference between lust and love.
Fascinating.
Out of curiosity, suppose Oliver showed up in your life again. Suppose he wanted a relationship with you. What would you do?
Did Oliver know about Matt?